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I believe BDSM is mostly about the mental, physical and social connnection you have with your submissive. Finding the right submissive is like vanilla dating and adding the BDSM dynamic into your relationship.
�I do enjoy most aspects of BDSM. I vary from sadistic to moderate but only as much as my partner can handle. I do like to flog,crop,cane etc..so be warned.I do everything but the following : Animals, scat, heavy blood, children. Dollification, gas masks, rubber suits are not out of the question, just never done them.�
�So if its not on that list, Im into it. Any other questions, feel free to ask. I do enjoy making friends also. Always nice to talk to someone that has a good sense of humor , is smart and grounded.
�Be safe
If you have read all this and looked at my pictures and gotten,a laugh, say HI.. cant hurt...well... maybe 
I havent written an entry in a while. Now that the Holidays are done and its a New year, back to the search. Seems like the real people here are staying very quiet.. I wonder if everyone is too afraid to experiment with this site after what happened?
I guess Im on a tirade today, let me make something clear ( other than I cant spell claify today). I am looking for a RL relationship. Cyber is fine, Im even quite good at it ( dont believe me ?? I can give you references lol) but I want RL eventually. If you just want online, be honest and let me decide if its worth it. Cyber is just one step removed from.masterbating, why spend all that time chatting and getting to know someone if there is not going to be any interaction face to face ? Flogging my pillow just destroys the pillow .....
The bullshitters on this site have gotten even lazier...one posted a picture of a female in a US uniform, the US Army uniform to be exact....but her handle was willingmarine lol.....or they have a recent picture of a white female but the profile says african american OR visa versa..... and why are there suddenly a million lesbian female switchs ?? ( shrug) Just askin'
Is saying 'ok' on a reply email the polite way if saying ...go fuck yourself ?? Did I miss that memo ?
Using my vast skills as a trained observer,if a sub is in your area and you meet her detailed desires in a Dom but deletes unread the email you send.....that MIGHT be a fake profile
Amongst all the flakes, trolls, fakes and just rude people, you find a diamond in the rough at times. I guess that makes,the saga all worth it when you do.
So ..... if someone contacts you in reference to a glaring typo on your profile, is it a measure of the person, this site or society in general when you reply, " FUCK YOU" .... I hope its just the person, think its this site and assume its just society
further investigation has revealed that this site is 90% bullshit and 10% real....thats alot of cow crap in one place....this site should be renamed CowShit...just saying
Some people are just pathetic trolls.Why would you join a BDSM website if nothing but dull vanilla mundane stuff is what youre into ?? 50 shades of fail I say !
I keep seeing journal entries asking , " Why is it soo hard to find the right person??". I think its because everyone is,looking for a custom fit in an off the rack world, no one want to spend the time or effort to get to know anyone, see through being a few inches too short or a few pounds over ( I said a few...lol)

It seems to me that there is an issue with finding a real Alpha Dominant male. Leadership is a trait, like blue eyes or being tall. You either have it or you don't. Sure, leadership can be taught but its just sharpens the sword, give meaning and words to the urges and thoughts. Now management is taught, you can work at McDonalds and get GREAT management training. Things like time management, employee discipline, etc but you cant make anyone a good leader if the seed isn't there to begin with.

A true Alpha Dominant male ( or female ) doesn't have to prove a thing. They know that either you will accept them in a leadership role or you will not. If you don't, then you don't feel submissive to them.

I guess its just like real submission, its an instinct, an urge... not an option other than to who you feel submissive to. A true submissive has to feel protected, cared for and sheltered when she / he is with their Dom/me.