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As I've written before...to dominate, or not to dominate? That is the question. Whether it nobler in the mind to suffer the whips and gags of masters, or to take up a flogger against a submissive and by taking charge, dominate them.-Kitty
Heh.. moving right along.


After becoming a bit wiser on this site, I decided to re-write my information in this little box. I'm still not completely sure what I'm looking for, I can tell you some things I'm not looking for though::insert polite smile here:: I am in no way, shape or form looking for men over 30, let's get that straight, if you're a man over 30, I'll talk to you, but I will not, I repeat will not be seeking any kind of relationship with you. Nor am I looking to be a man's "little slut" as I've been called a few times on here. It's quite annoying to have someone assume that I'll automatically want to submit to them when they haven't even said hello. I hate having to sound this rude, but the idiotic men on this site have left me with no other choice. I'm sorry to the men out there that are actually nice and charming, and thank you to those that have actually kept some faith alive in the male race.

Don't send me pictures of your cock, it not only ruins your chances, it makes me realize how pathetic you really are, and not in the good way that makes me want to controll you.


As for the Ladies...hello. I'm looking more for woman than anything else, I'm much more interested in meeting women whether it be for friends or more. Although I think sexuality is a little deeper than "gay/bi/straight" I actually date woman outside of this lifestyle. My sexuality isn't just for show or to please other people, I actually and completely adore woman. Granted, I still date men aswell, but I'm more comfortable with woman in this situation.

Please don't be turned away by what I said...unless you're a man over 30 looking to make me you're baby girl....

I dont really have any experience,other than with friends and my lady, but I'm anxious to learn.

I'm young, not stupid, don't try to charm me out of my limits.And as an ending thought.
"I don't believe in gay or straight, I believe in consenual"-An amazing drag queen I met.

Ok kids, I'm moving. This name no longer suits me. I'll check it, but find me on trixysgotreats.

Wooo, I just got blocked by a ego masterbating brittish man who considers himself "reasonably intellegent", yet refused to see rape play as a part of all this mumbo jumbo and thought I needed to be more sensitive about using the word rape in a journal. Keep in mind he mailed me first.. And he called me toots. Too funny. A nice break from my housework.
No means no, so stop raping me with your annoying messages.
Here's a tip, if the only thing you can insult me with is my weight, just because I won't fuck you,it just shows how unworthy you are to talk to me  and any other woman, for that matter. Grow up.  If I really cared that much, I would have lied and said much less. 
I can now only assume everyone's lying. AS soon as I think I might have a person that would fit, I find they're a flake.
I think I want a hand maiden. A girl to sit at my feet, do favor/cores for me, brush my hair and what nots.
Come out come out wherever you are, I need friends and a sub. I'm alone way too much in the week and a pet would be nice to keep me company.
Apparently, someone that was under "addictedtopain"  and went by Scott, couldn't handle rejection and sent vulgar things to my girlfriend and I to make his pathetic self feel better, then deleted his account. That's a real man-rolls eyes-  So to those who think sending things like "Take care of yourself you cute little cum dumpster!! (And trust me, you may think you are a lesbian, but your "friend" is going to want to see the guys she hooks up with sliding their cocks into all your holes at some point.... just wait and see.) " is respectable, don't bother. And by the way, nothing goes inside my girlfriend, so don't get any ideas. http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0028.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Le sigh, where are all the pretty little girls?

Do yourself a favor, and read.
So... appearently woman are stupid too, and can't read that I'm not your bitch, and I will not submit. Fuck you.
Look, pictures aren't just because I'm into vanity, it's also to tell how you present yourselves, so don't tell me otherwise how to run things.
 
Woman, we want you, men, you appearently can't read to save your life. So bring on the ladies, I'm tired of boys.

New account, PackageDealKM, it's the account for my girl and I.

The more men on here I meet, the more I think I'm a lesbian.

P.S. There's a new picture that includes a gimplse of my beautiful girlfriend.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0053.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

As said before... NO OLDER MEN YOU FUCKTARDS! And... NO DOMINANT MEN, YOU SELF ABSORBED, PATHETIC EXCUSES FOR MEN.... Ok, I feel better.

And for the older/dominant men who are actually looking just to help out, shatting it always welcomed, just don't think you'll be getting anything from it other than a friend in the scene.
Second thought, I might have convinced my girlfriend we want a sub. Any interests? Alot of the same rules apply, and remember, she's a lesbian, no boys for sex.

Listen up kids.I'm not searching for a relationship past a friend or guide, I'm happy at my point in life. I've got a great girlfriend now, and she's all I need right now. No, that's not an invitation to our relationship.


Like I said, I still would love chatting, but nothing more, so feel free to hit me up.

I beg of you, don't call me ma'am... or I can order you not to. I guess I should say order seeing as the people calling me ma'am are submissive... anyways, don't call me ma'am, it makes me feel like my mother, someone I don't want to associate with bondage.
Le sigh... this is becoming more pointless as the days go by, resulting in my inbox being full of messages from men that just don't get it.
Listen, my personal life has gotten out of hand in the past few months, taking my professional life with it. So, sorry if I haven't been here, or replying soon enough. But my standards still apply and the more messages I get from men,the more I don't like them, but woman are just as bad, or so I've decided as I clutch my heart in my hands.


Wow, that sounded emotastic.
I'm starting to believe I officially hate most people and I'm done attempting to be nice to people who don't have the comman sense to be polite or read. I have't been able to be around here for quite sometime, even though intrested. I'm not on the site more than three minutes before the men with no logic start dumping the messages of pathetic nature on me.

Wow...I sound uber bitter.
I had the pleasure and honor to whip one of my friends the other day, fuly tied down. Ok, so really, it was a game gone terribly right, but either way, I'm starting to look into the domme more, they said it seemed to fit me. Which is odd because I love the feeling of being whipped and flogged, but the power isn't too bad either...
Rar... I'm so sorry to anyone I've been talking to on here. Things on my end are getting hectic, people moving, dealing with medical things, family, car, you get the picture. I'm trying to stay in touch, just be patient.
I think I'm getting excited. It looks as though I might have my first real hopeful to help me on my path... it's cheesy, I know, but I've started talking to a domme that I've always admired from afar, I've even talked to her slave before. She's taken time out to consider training me...tehe. I'ma  nerd.
I'm currently looking to be trained as a domme, I don't know exactly how to go about this, but I'd much more prefer learning under a woman. I don't know if I start out as her sub adn learn, or what, but I'm ready.
Happy Single Awareness Day.
So, I don't even really like feet, but I've been asked to show them many times, and I so happen to have pictures from when I took some in a photo shoot for a friend, so there you go foot lovers, a picture of my peds.
I want a woman...plain and simple, to dominate me, to dominate, I don't care, I want a woman....

Yes,yes, I'll still talk to men.
::sigh:: Nothing seems to fit. Only a few have really sparked me, but nothing has lead to a flame yet. Bah...
Does no one f^cking read anymore? i'm generally a very nice girl, but if I get one more man over 30 asking me to "Play" I'll scream. I'm willing to make exceptions for woman, but deffinately not for men. It's my limit, respect it. 

::deep breathe:: Thank you...
"A good girl is like the apple on a tree: The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just pick from the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy to impress ... so the apples at the top get to thinking something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to learn to wait for the right One to come along - the One who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree and choose from the best. A great girl prepares herself for that day."

::sigh:: Is that the problem? Oh well, things are starting to look hopeless.

I still get older men than need to be messaging me asking to do God knows what to me. Bah.

Where are all the girls?
Hmm. to dominate, or not to dominate? That is the question. Whether it nobler in the mind to suffer the whips and gags of masters, or to take up a flogger against a submissive and by taking charge, dominate them.

I've met some pretty great people. One in particular. I'm actually starting to relize more of what I want. I always thought those things in the back of my head were alittle odd, but they just wont go out.


Ok, I'm a loser.
For the love of all things sacred, read my profile before sending me a message. I feel like a total bitch sometimes having so say "Sorry, You're out of my age limits" I wouldn't have to say that if you'd read my profile! I'll talk to older people, but dont ask to meet me or be my master when you're totally what I said no to in my profile...  I hate being this straight forward and bitchy, but damn, read, then decide if getting turned down by a 19 yr old is really worth your time and possible ego.

I still don't want to play with a 40 yr old master just because his messenger is a 23 yr old sub.

Ok, still stands, no older men, but a new addition to my list of "No thank you" is being someone's sisterslave, I say this because mainly when a nice, beautiful, young girl(all of what I think to great) wants to talk to me to be her sis, it's for her 40 year old master. ::sigh:: Will I ever find my place and know what I'm looking for? Hmm..http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0026.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>Whoa is me.
::shakes head and sighs:: Does no one pay attention? It's one thing to be older than what I want,especially being a man, send a message telling me you would like to chat or help answer questions, or tell me you ike my photograph,that's ok sometimes, but it is a completely other thing to disgreguard what I have plainly put in my add and be over 30,male, and expect me to bow down to you or drop my panties because you think you're the one. I feel so mean, but I know what I said, but no one seems to listen. ::scrunches brow and pouts:: ~ A Quite Upset Kitty That's Not a Panty dropper.
Little hint, pay attention to what people say in their ad. Im not that interested in meeting men, especially off line, I dont mind talking to them to learn more, but do not in anyway want to be someone's "online slave". Another thing, if you 35 and male, I deffinately dont want to meet you. I'm in no way shape or form looking to have sex with men. I have completely different standards for woman than I do men. Women that are alittle bit older are ok, still no one extremely older than me.

Not trying to be a bitch, just helping you not waste your time a young thing like me.
Yep, Still wondering what's out there. Getting to know people can be fun. Certain people in particular.:giggle: yes, I'm a tidge girly with the giggle, get over it.
Hmm.. I find it intersting that people automatically assume they are the one that will rock your world and that you'll all the sudden want them when they didn't even try. I know, it sounds bitchy, but it's true, just think of that next time you message someone. Are you showing your best side or not even trying?