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I'll try to keep this much shorter than it has previously been. Mental bondage and mental dominance are my forte.
For me, it's about getting deep inside your head, drilling into your mind where your place is, making sure you never forget with your every movement, every action, every thought who you belong to, who you serve, whose collar you wear. Though, to be clear, I want it a feeling not laced with fear, but with the warmest and most uncontrollable of joy, a happy little pet so glad to be able to serve such a caring master.
For me, there are no "scenes", there is no formal transition into and out of "roles", there is no distinction between dominance/submission sexually and dominance/submission in all other aspects of our lives. I want it to be pervasive. It needs to be so natural for you that you never have to consciously force yourself to recognize it.
That said, I am not and will not ever participate in local BDSM communities or anything like that. This is something I consider intimate and personal and fetishizing it immediately takes away the value inherent in it.
Also I've very recently become quite intrigued by the ideas of: bimbofication/bimbo-training (Particularly permanent, although might also an on-and-off thing), strict 1950's household, and more daddy/daughter-type things (Despite my age). I'm always up for talking to people more about these subjects.
Aside from all that boring stuff, what I am, in as few words as possible: an ambitious, accomplished, idealistic, world-saving, zombie-killing problem solver. And for me, this truly is a 'lifestyle' because it is a deep, core part of my identity. It is an integral part of why I strive for ambitious goals and find success in what I set out to do. Dominance is not and, for me, shouldn't be an outlet or feigned act meant to make up for shortcomings or temporarily fill gaps - it should be a reflection of those gaps and shortcomings not existing.
What I'm after in general is fairly straightforward: thoroughly submissive, largely domestic (Preferably in the 1950's vein), totally obedient and willing to learn and grow. A woman whom will have our home cleaned and ready, a woman who will jump at any and every opportunity to please, whether sexually or in supporting in anything else, and do so genuinely. Someone who functions in so much more than just a sexual capacity and loves every minute of it.
Things I'm absolutely not interested in:
- Having someone to pass around with other men. My property is mine.
- Dungeons and complex contraptions that it seems most of the people here are actually interested in
- Parading my woman around for other men to gawk at. I take no pride in this and find it completely against what ownership means to me.
- A power-exchange dynamic based on fear and threat of serious physical harm
I am inherently much more of a protector and provider type, but one who demands fierce loyalty and obedience and still enjoys the rougher physical aspects of all this. The kind who will always stand up for his submissive/slave and also make sure she is properly cared for. Additionally, I've got a complete intolerance of bullshit like needless meanness or pettiness and I have no qualms putting those who practice these things in their place. My standards and expectations in this regard are high.
Also - major bonus points for nerdy girls and ones who like good music (Especially punk, hardcore, and/or metal). |
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