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Here I find myself once more on these webpages, what used to be collar*e and now here. I am friendly, feel free to say hi. I am open, honest, sincere, funny and empowered. I seek passion and intensity, I value honor in deed and in word and old fashioned protocol/etiquette (I may not always get it right but I value it anyhow).
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I am a switch. At this time I have a Dominant. I am looking for a male sub to explore with in a D/s relationship that may evolve into a live in situation. I am looking for a service submissive, one that will not mind a certain amount of protocol. Though I prefer younger I am willing to entertain an older man, if the chemistry is right. No doormats allowed, I already have one outside my front door and it works fine. Please be responsible for yourself.
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I am POLY. I am only seeking a male sub at this time, I am involved with others (Dominant Daddy, Girlfriend brat/sub) they do not live with me. Being poly doesn't mean I will sleep with just anyone. I don't want to play with just anyone, I am selective. I'm not into couples, so please don't ask. I prefer one on one play. Also, if you're married and for whatever reason aren't honest with your spouse about your kinky lifestyle or the fact that you are looking for something on the side, please don't bother to contact me. I have to include DA/DT policy in this because it's unverifiable by definition.
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If you have any questions, feel free to message me but please...read this first. I will not respond to questions that can be answered by reading my profile. I can be found on that other "fet" website under the screen name -Kammie- |
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Me in my poly-ness are exploring. Lately it's been very prominent on my mind. A boy to train and mold to my whim...sounds delicious. In most things I am fairly laid back and will want to get to know people on a casual level before anything goes farther. Do not mistake my easy going personality as weakness. I am very capable of making you sorry you did, if you do. |
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Dominate - verb
Dominant - noun
There IS a difference and it's a pet peeve of mine. |
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Being Little....
Ok so I thought I would write a note about what it means to be little. I see tons of "Doms" here but very few Daddies but a lot of "Doms" say they can be Daddies and I wonder if they truly know what's involved with that.
Daddies are Dominants, that is true, however their style is different from a typical Dominant in how they discipline and what activities may be involved. Sure, littles like sex (well I don't mix being little and sex myself but...some do) and sure I love a good spanking (as opposed to a bad spanking when I've been bad) but truly...a Daddy Dom/babygirl relationship isn't very different from a real Daddy/child relationship only I'm a consenting adult.
I like to color, I love disney and other kids shows, I have a teddy bear and footed pajamas...I like to play with play doh and blow bubbles. I like to swing at the park. Most submissives that aren't little...they probably won't like these things (or as much as littles do). So a Daddy needs to know and be prepared for this. They need to know that corporal punishment may not be the best way to handle every situation. They should be prepared for lots of cuddles and tickles and kisses.
I hope this helps... |
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?Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.?
-Rumi
thanks to a friend who sent this to me. it's much too true not to note. |
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In Memorium of my former Daddy
On August 24th, my former Daddy, BigBadSir passed from this world and into the next.
He was more than my Daddy for the last few years, he was also a trusted friend, lover and confidant. He knew more about me than 95% of the people I know. At this sad time, it is somewhat comforting to me to know that he truly did not abandon me. He kept that promise to me and for that I am truly thankful. It gives me hope that there are people that can be trusted not to walk out on me when things get tough. He was truly a hero to this little girl. I can't begin to express how much I grew during the time I knew him and sometimes we went through the most terrible of trials, we always came out of them stronger, wiser and more committed than before them. Together, we saw them through. His last words to me in person were, "I love you more than you will ever know", and he's right, but he will also never know how much I loved him in return.
As I talk with my friends and remember him with them, I hear the things that I knew him to be but from others...how he truly loved and cared about me....how he may have not always been the most amiable person but his heart was in the right place and we've talked about certain memories. These things sustain me now, as I grieve his loss and I thank you all for the kind words that you have spoken of him.
No one will ever replace him in my life, though I may find another to serve and maybe even another Daddy, BigBadSir will always hold a place in my heart and my memories. One never knows how much time they have here or by what circumstances we find ourselves, I am grateful for every moment I had with him. |
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Please don't message me and expect me to call you Sir or Master right off the bat. You have not earned that title and I have not earned any standing in your eyes. I do not submit for just anyone, only THE one. Though I am poly I will only ever have one dominant (too many roosters in the hen house equals bad things).
I am not a doormat, so go peddle your ego somewhere else. I am an empowered switch. I am submissive but I'm not YOUR submissive. Those things come with time and work and mutual investment. If I submitted to everyone would you think my submission special? I think not. If you dominated everyone who you came across would I think your domination special? I think not.
That's my honest opinion. You can do with it as you like, pass me over for someone else who will call you Master or Sir from the very beginning...that's fine with me. |
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Lately I've had some interest in topping and being alpha sub. I think alpha sub is were I most fit in the hierarchy, but I'm not sure how that fits in with being little...hmmm...a cute little juxtaposition there but as much as it is amusing it causes me to ponder where I may belong.
I used to be an alpha sub, in my former Daddy's chain, I have to say it was rewarding. |
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