charis2770

All right, I'm going to try this again! I know there are a lot of submissives out there looking for something real in their lives. I know that search can be frustrating, and that the crap you have to wade through to find it is sometimes so daunting you want to give up entirely. I'm not offering myself as the end to your search. I'm looking for a submissive friend to fulfill a need in my life. I need some domestic help in a few areas, and I need someone to share aspects of my life. It need not matter if you are a boy or a girl. I am not looking for you as a sex partner. I am bisexual, but right now what I need most is something more than that. I am involved with a Dominant Man who makes me happy. I have no interest in replacing him. I'm also not looking to pimp for him, so this isn't another one of those ads looking to bring in a third to our relationship. I like to top, I hope we can enjoy scening together. I hope what I can offer you is a safe place to be who you are and not feel pressured to put out or jump through ridiculous hoops. I'm pretty easy to please. We would both like to be your friends. It would be great if you also enjoyed gaming, as it's one of our favorite pastimes and we'd love you to be involved in that. While you would be performing a service for me that I need at this time in my life, I hope you'll be getting a lot out of the friendship as well. I like to have fun, to be silly and hang out and shop and go to movies and out to dinner. I have over a decade of lifestyle experience, and I hope I can teach you a great deal, to help you become more yourself and be happy with who you are. There will be rules you'll be expected to abide by, but they aren't unreasonable, and you'll find me easy to get along with. I'll need to trust you before you're allowed into my home, but I expect you'll need time to trust me as well. I can be gentle or incredibly sadistic during a scene, and I believe we'd both get something out of it either way. If you're not really looking for a lifestyle "relationship" right now, but miss being active in some way, this could also be a safe haven for you as you figure out what you want. No pressure, just a friend who could use a helping hand. Your needs as a submissive can be met in a safe and loving manner that will not stack expectations on your shoulders at the same time. I do not need a live-in, but the amount of time we spend together is open to negotiation once we start to get to know each other. My life needs the added dimension you could bring it. Your life needs the security, warmth, and sense of belonging I can bring it. Along with a good firm spanking now and then :)