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Male Dominant, 51
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Male Dominant, 40, chelmsford
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Male Submissive, 62
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About CelticLadyDar
I am a female switch who enjoys sensation play as a submissive and slightly more sadistic play when Dominant. I should also note that I am a BBW. If you do not like full figured women then you and I will not be a good match.
I play with men or women but it's important to know that to me play does NOT mean sex. It is not to say that the two don't ever mingle but I am not into casual sex or having random sex partners. I have no issue with my friends who swing but it's simply not for me. Nuff said. :)
From my adolescence I was drawn to dark things. I thought there was something wrong with me and carried a lot of shame for many years. It wasn't until I learned that someone very close to me shared my desires and in fact was exploring them through BDSM that I finally found a place where I feel I belong.
I am not poly. I have tried being in a poly relationship and found it triggers my insecurities and left me feeling very unhappy. It was a painful experience and while I hold no hard feelings as it was my choice, I know now that I am only truly happy in a monogamous relationship. With that being said I should also ad I am not one of those serial monogamous people who believe there is no room for interpretations. I simply know from experience that for ME it's best to keep sex in the bedroom with one special person. Giving a friend a beating now and then does not cross boundaries for me as long as it is open and everyone understands the rules.
I enjoy attending local lifestyle parties and events when possible. If you are not open to attending these then we will not be a good match. I'm thankful for the many friends I've made through the years and look forward to what the future might bring. If you have any questions please feel free to email me but do not ask questions of a sexual nature. I find it both rude and presumptuous to think that I will discuss my personal life with a stranger. If you wish to make a connection with me you must first peak my interest. The brain is the largest erogenous zone. I'm stimulated by intelligence, creativity and good conversation. I'm turned off by wanna be doms and do me subs.
Be yourself, be honest and be real.
**Note**
I do not smoke and drink very little.
I am disease and drug free and want the same in a partner.
I do not do online play!
I'm NOT willing to relocate!
If you are going to take the time to email me, please spell out words and
form complete sentences. Punctuation and spelling do count!!
I am not interested in anyone younger than 45 or older than 65.
I am not looking for a Daddy and I loath being called babygirl!
I am NOT looking for someone to save me!
I don't respond to commands!
I am not here to help you jack off!!
I'm not looking for a one night stand!
SINGLE MEN ONLY!
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A lot has changed since my last journal post. I've been in my own apartment since August of 2010. Life has settled down for the most part and I'm ready to start looking for someone to add to my life. I'm looking for a single male, submissive or switch preferred. I'm looking for someone to accompany me to parties and events in the local area and if we mesh well perhaps we can develope a deeper relationship.
I'm not all about sex so please don't think this will be a hook up. I need to get to know you and see if I really like you before I determine if the relationship can go further. You must be clean cut or if you have facial hair it should be neat and trimmed. I admire intelligence and honesty and love a good sense of humor. If you are interested please message me and include a recent photo. |
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My life has been on hold now for several months. I'm between homes, staying with family until my apartment is ready for me to move in August. It's starting to get to me honestly. I need my own space again! Once I have an apartment I'll at least be able to put my things where they belong and center myself again. I love and appreciate all my family has done to help me transition from being a slave to becoming what I am meant to be which is a free woman strong and sure of herself. The move from my former Masters home to my nephews home was the start of my transition. A soft place to fall so to speak. I'm working on my health, getting strong physically and emotionally but this is only the tip of the iceberg. While I hope I will always be changing and growing, I need a sense of "home" which I don't have right now. It's all coming together, I just need more patients! Not my strength I'm afraid. BUT I believe this is the Universe sending me yet another lesson. Learn that all good things take time and not to rush! |
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You know it still amazes me at how rude people can be. I guess I just need to vent a little bit here. I am NOT interested in cyber sex. I am NOT interested in giving you fuel for your fantasy so you can jerk off. I am NOT interested in being your slave nor am I looking for your approval. If you wish to speak with me then don't waist my time! If you determin I am not your cup of tea, that is just fine with me. It's highly likely you are not mine either.
I am looking for the right connection. I'm happy to make friends along the way but I am not desparate or needy! Do NOT make assumptions! Also, if you are more then 10 years younger then I am please do not bother me!
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Tomorrow is The Celebration of Power and Life down town. I'm looking forward to seeing my friends and enjoying the class! |
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More about me...
I've been active in the lifestyle for several years now.
I have a soft heart and love to please my partner but I am not interested in a D/s relationship. I have a strong personality and like to be myself.
I am a lady and like to be treated like one.
In the bedroom that is another story!
I love to laugh and have been told I have a good sense of humor. I do not like to take life too seriously, however, I do not suffer fools well either.
If you are a strong man and sure of himself and like a woman who is both strong and yet eager to please, lets talk more! I am not looking for a one nighter or a collar. I prefer to meet as equals and remain as such.
I'm not Poly, I know this from first hand experience so please don't try to convince me it will be different this time or that I'll only learn to trust if I open myself up to the experience. Ya, been there done that. While I respect my Poly friends, I'm must not wired that way.
I am a parent, full time employee, best friend to a few and engaged member of my community.
I live and work in a vanilla world so my partner should be able to move comfortably in social scenes where business associates or family will be present.
I do not like players nor will I tolerate dishonesty. Ideally I would like to meet someone who is either a switch or a Dom who is willing to allow me to explore my dominant side and knows that 24/7 D/s is not realistic for me. I'm looking for a life partner, NOT a Master.
I also happen to be one of those people who believe that BDSM is not about sex so play partners are not the same as sex partners. I am pretty selective on both accounts.
My Ideal Person:
My ideal person is male, intelligent, polite, charming and warm hearted. A sense of humor is a must. He should like people and not be judgmental or abrasive. He should be patient and able to manage his temper. He should be Dominant in a confident natural way. No pseudo Dom's or Masters please!
Real time experience is preferred. I'm not looking for a boy toy or some young stud. I prefer men my own age or a little older |
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