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I am a mature, responsible, independant woman that has discovered a natural desire for kink, pain and submission. I am not a silly, foolish, girl just entering into this world ready to submit to any man that claims to be a Dom. I guarantee that when it comes to the human psychie, I am more astute than you. I will not fall for the game of telling me what you think I want to hear and then influencing me over to your needs. If my profile doesn't fit what you are looking for, please don't waste either of our time.
If after reading this you truly desire to get to know me, understand that this will not be something that happens quickly. Expect weeks to months to get to know each other before "play" even enters into the equation and many months before a D/s relationship is even considered. For me to desire to give into your every wish and desire requires me to know, respect and trust you and that is not something earned quickly or easily.
Please forgive this summation of the qualities you possess. It is not meant to be insulting, but merely a means of making sure not to waste your time or mine. You should be confident, but not arrogant, intelligent (college degree does not make you intelligent), but not condescending, you should have your life together (i.e. live by yourself, pay your own bills, drive your own vehicle, make your own money), but do not need to make six figures, you should be at least close to my age or older, unfortunately I find it difficult to submit to someone a great deal younger than me, you must have a great sense of humor as I love to make jokes and laugh. Most importantly, you should not see this as a means of getting kinky sex from lots of women, this is a lifestyle for me, not just a game to play to get lots of sex.
Not married or in a vanilla relationship, not a Daddy, not a switch, non-smoker, drinking is OK, drugs are an absolute no and safe sex is a must.
About me. I am a masochist and a submissive. I not only enjoy pain, but I need pain to keep me focused in my vanilla life functions. I recently discovered a love for Shibari, but do not require you have that skill as long as you let me continue to be friends with my current rope top. I am fairly new to BDSM as a formal lifestyle. I was married for 14 years and have determined we had a D/s relationship, just didn't know that was what we had. When I am attracted to a man and he treats me with respect and consideration, it is my innermost and deepest desire to do everything I can to make him happy, even at the expense of my own wants. I have never truly been in a D/s relationship, so if we determined that is what we wanted, some patience while I learn my role would be necessary.
On the non kinky side, my other passion in life is riding my super sport motorcycle. I love the outdoors, hiking, camping, playing sports. I work on my own vehicles and love the smell of oil and gasoline. But I clean up nice and can be presentable for a nice night out on the town. I have a 21 year old daughter that lives at home and a pain in the butt dog. I love to see new things, go for weekend get aways, or just go for an afternoon drive and see where it takes us. |
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