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Hello.

I exist. I am real, and I do real things with real people in real life. I'm not an idiot. (That last point might be up for debate).

I’m a sub who has been involved in D/s in some form all my adult life. Along the way I have variously been kidnapped, mummified, chastity-deviced, probed, strap-onned, force-femmed, hit with pointy sticks, restrained, caged, queened, collared, force-bi’d, humiliated, slapped, fetish-dressed, roped, plugged, face-sitted, CBT’d, boot and foot-worshippered, sensorily deprived, psychologically probed and stretched, oral-for-hours’ed, displayed, watersported, imprisoned, photographed, caressed, edge-played, controlled, teased, sexually-used, cherished, and cast aside.

And I’ve loved every single minute of it.

I still find that every single interaction, no matter how ‘tame’ or ‘extreme’ is just as thrilling as the first time. My needs are secondary – I indulge others’ whims and wants. That’s what makes me warm and fuzzy inside. I’m a tart, basically - but a useful one.

Emotionally balanced, independent when not needed, attentive when called for, I’m old enough to take it all in my stride, but young enough to put up a good show, experienced enough to know my limits, but adventurous enough to try nearly anything twice. Grounded enough to know that I’m not perfect, open enough to say I’m a blank sheet, modest enough to say my experiences might not count for anything, and naïve enough to think I still stand a chance…

You will find me relaxed and friendly, and capable of good conversation, but when the going gets hot I switch easily to the intensity of the moment: to be taken any which way, pillar to post, as prop or provocateur. I have few taboos, and get off on the thrill of seeing someone else get off no matter what it entails… I don’t care whether it’s gentle kink, obscene deviance, three-way erotic play, or non-sexual slavery. Did I mention I’m a tart?

What I am in everyday life: confident but not arrogant; intelligent but not condescending; successful but not brash; easy-going but not flaky; imaginative but not a fantasist; manly but not brutish; loyal but not clingy; gone but not forgotten.

I am fit, clean, active, healthy, tanned, have very bright blue eyes, in great physical shape, successful in my career, and while probably not quite Brad Pitt, mirrors don’t break when I walk past them.


I am currently unattached and therefore free for ongoing consumption with few limitations and no baggage, and ideally seeking a partner in crime for a longer term relationship with D/s at its core.