I am new to the lifestyle. Right now I am not actively seeking a dominant. I am a BDSM virgin I guess and would mostly like to talk to people about their experiences. I am really not interested in online play, I realize this may prove difficult since most people are far away but it doesn't do anything for me. I am not unwilling to relocate I would just like for someone to be closer or I feel nothing but absolution for him. And no, just because we exchange a few emails, does not mean you can collar me or make demands at me, and anyone over the age of 35 need not message me unless you'd like to chat and shoot the shit, I'd be more then glad to as I love talking with people about anything. Otherwise you will be deleted.