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Thanx to everyone who's sent me a message on here I just wanted to let you all know.I will not be meeting anyone off this site for a long period of time I have other things.I need to take care of and don't know when I will have the time to set aside to meet.I do wish you all the best In your up coming search for subs or slaves.I will keep In touch when I can but don't make any promises at all. Thanx for showing me an Interest and good luck to all of you on here ttys bye.

Update:Currently In the middle of moving to Woonsocket so wont be on here that much for awhile.So please leave me a message and I will respond as soon as I can thank you.

UPDATE:I will not respond for the following reasons If you are more than 25miles away,No photo to show,Out of state,Black male,Over weight.If you send me you email address or phone number without even reading this I will delete your message without reading It.When sending me a message let me know why you are Interested In me.Don't come telling me the reason your Interested Is cause you've never been with an ebony woman but always wanted to.

Okay just so very one know's I'm not single and am In a loving relationship.I'm not looking for a d/s relationship at all from any of yall on this site.I am a submissive who Is just simply on here looking for a Dom who can help me.Bring out more of my submissiveness and train me as well nothing more than that at all.I'm not looking to do anything behind my boyfriends back either so don't even ask.I am extremely faithful and tell him everything and anything as well.He as well have his profile on here and no I wont tell you about his profile. I am extremely picky as to what I'm looking for on this site I am d/d free and do nothing.Without the use of condoms or without my bf as well knowing about It If you don't.Like that Idea then move on I don't care about your rude comments so don't bother telling me.At least I'm been honest and not fake on this site like more are here.I do not give out my personal email addy or my phone number either.

Here are a few things that will get me not to respond to you:

1)Not having a picture.

2)You emailing me without reading all of this first.

3)You are over weight.

4)You sending me your email addy or phone number.

As to what I'm Into look at my Interest and find out before skipping It and asking me.Take the time to read It before asking me stuipd questions that would be nice.

About Me:I've been a sub since the age of 14yrs.old I've have always know that I was.I've had only two Dom In my life and they both end It freely.I'm still In communication with both here and there and they both have a profile on here.Yes I am at the moment of looking for a dom but I will not rush Into a d/s relationship. Just cause most of you show me an Interest and I respond back does not mean we will be a d/s ltr at all.Do not expect me to send you my ym id so we can chat there It wont be happening.I will not right off call you Dom/Sir/Master at all just cause you emailed me.Or just cause you feel I need to respect  you and call you that.Anyone who Is a REAL Dom/Sir/Master would know to be called that has to be earned and no given.I am one who Is d/d/d and I do nothing with out condoms.If there should be a d/s ltr condoms with be used no matter what I TRUST NO ONE SEXUALLY! I've been asked over and over again to explain what I will do and not do.So here It Is for those who've been asked:
1)No Sex without condoms.
2)I will not swallow you load.
3)I will not give you my ym unless there Is a strong chance of meeting.
4)No Kids
5)No Animals
6)No Photo taking.
7)No Video taping.
8)No Scat
9)No passing me around at all.
10)No Needle Play.
11)No Fire.
12)No Branding,No Piercing,No Marks of any kind.
Also know I AM A SUBMISSIVE and have no Interest on becoming a slave.If you want a slave some one you can own then move on It's not me.More will be wrote at a later time please read this before responding to me.And with your email back to me understand what you've read WILL NO CHANGE FOR YOU OR ANYONE..FOR ANY REASON AT ALL SO DON'T ASK ME.
Update:Currently moving out of  Massachusetts.And now In the process of moving to Rhode Island.I will be back on Collar Me on September 10 not before.
So to anyone who should send me a message I will not.Be able to respond until that day sorry.
Update:I'm currently In a very deep loving relationship and I'm not at all. Looking nor planning to leave my bf at all for any reason so know that. We both have a profile up on this site and right now exploring It together. I have no Interest In collecting or sending you my email addy/phone# so don't ask.Now If It's something he and both like and wanna do then we both will let you know.We are both switches and enjoy It a lot and looking to explore that as well.
What we both are currently lookin for Is someone to lead us In the right direction.
He has a very strong Interest In exploring having two women at the same time.Controlling him and using him sexually nothing to hard or rough cause he's still new at It. Have to bring him In nice and slow and make him obey orders well.He Is d/d free completely and so am I and we.Both wish to remain that way therefore you must be as well.
Nothing will be rushed Into at all there will first be a few emails that will happen.Just to see how that go's we will ask to see your pic during that time.If you don't have one then don't bother wasting our time.You get to see what we both look like and after conversation online.Then we will give you my phone number to talk on the phone.
my boyfriend and i have a problem...he wants a cock ring.. we measured the way they tell you to measure to find the right size for him..and here is the problem...acording to that measurement the smallest he can go is  a 3 inch ring but the biggest we can find is 2 inches... what is a well endowed guy to do..he says he doesn't mind choking his chicken..he just doesn't want to kill it by suffacation...tryed a couple other things but did not work out good ..got way to painful for him way to fast 
WOW!There's really a lot of MORONS
on this site than ever.It amazes me that there are a lot of wannabes here.How hard Is It to take the time to read someone's profile on here? I mean come people It's really not all that hard.STOP sending me theses dumb emails about the fact you.Want
to be with me cause I'm ebony do you not realize.
That you seem like an IDIOT telling me that?What's that suppose to do turn me on here lmao NOT!Get a clue please your worthless coming at me like that.And you would have just wasted your time typing that.I am not on here to boost your ego or be your ebony submissive at all. I am on here to find a DOM not a master and not to be a slave okay. I am just simply a SUBMISSIVE see I wont It In capitals just so you know.Here are some of things that again will get you no respond from me.

1)You sending me an email with no picture.
2)You asking me for my phone#or email address.Or better yet you sending me your email address,#.
3)Over weight men are a complete turn-off for me.
3)If you are a submissive male or bi-male.
4)If you have no more than 5yrs. experience In the bdsm lifestyle.
5)If you aren't able to put more than two sentences together. About why you are sending me an email wanting to get to know me.

I am a submissive and have all my life since the age of 14yrs.old.Yes I have had some experiences with Dom's good and bad ones.The things I will NOT do Is Kids,Scat, Animals,Video,Pictures,Peircings, Blood,Brandings.Anything else we will have to discuss together but I will say I'm open minded.Just cause I have a list of things right there that I wont do.Doesn't mean that I'm not a submissive at all It. Just means I'm not willing to allow you to hurt me and I'm using my head.I'm not looking to rush Into been anyone's submissive there has to be some attraction there. And a lot of conversations on here and see how that go's between us. Just because I look at your profile doesn't mean I'm Interest In you. If I am Interested In you I will let you know just like you will with me.

PLEASE READ THIS BEFORE YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE..And If you have an Interest In me then let me know w/an email.
Hi Guys! Please Understand I am looking for a dom male only.Again I'm not looking for nor do I have Interest In couples,Bi's, switches.I do have alot of pictures to show myself only to the right person of Interest. DO NOT send me your email address cause I will not email you off this site.If you are sincere and not about playing games then. You will simply take the time to get and get to know me here for now.
My attempt Is to find someone REAL and not some fakes ass wannabe Dom here.It Is only proper that you get to know one other.Before asking someone whom you don't know to call you Master/Sir/Dom.I feel to be called that It has to be earned and not just given at anytime.
A genuine Dom/Master/Sir would know these things If they are real that Is.Only the fakes and wannabe's don't know this.  I definitely am here to explore my deepest fantasies with only the right person.I will not tell you what they are unless I feel you are real.Don't not ask me to explain who I am unless you've read this cause It's In this here.If you are willing to read this first and then send me an email here then.You are simply wasting your time and mine and I will not respond to you.
Here are somethings that will get my up most attention.

1)Having a picture to show who you are.
2)Not been over weight.
3)Been under the age of 50yrs.old
4)Must be In the Mass area.
5)Drug and diease free.
6)White males only.
7)More than 7yrs.experiences.
8)Not married.

Things that will not get me to respond to you.

1)Not having a picture.
2)Been demanding right from the start.
3)Sending me email address or phone# asking me to contact you If I'm real.
4)Not been able to tell me why It Is you've contacted me In an email letter.
5)Married.
6)Not living In the Mass area.
7)Been 50yrs/old and over.
8)Not been a white male.Sorry but white males are the only male race I like.

It's just that simple and I don't think I am asking for alot on here really.You guys ask for submissive women to be real and true. Well how about you guys been the same as what you ask for.I'm not here to waste my time nor your's at all and If you can't. Handle that then please move on to the next submissive who will only be with you. For all the wrong reasons and not the right one at all cause that's not me.Now been a submissive doesn't run my life there are other things I enjoy doing.
It's not my 24/7 thing there's alot more to me If you take the time to know me.If you shall become Interested In wanting to meet me.Then you will have to travel to me due to past experiences I will not travel to you.And we would meet In a public place of my choice that's close to me.So If you want someone real and want to take a journey together of something long and meaningful then let's talk.If not move on and I wish you luck In your search.

Guys here's some advise for ya.Try getting to know me before offering me.Your phone#/email address that would be awesome If you could.I'm not out here to be another phone# or email address under your belt.If you are really sincere then you will take the time to read this.Before wasting time with me read my likes/dislikes. Before sending me an email asking me to explain my experiences plz.I am extremely picky when It comes been someones submissive.If you dont like that then simply pass me by.
Now If you want someone real and who wont play games on you.Then here I am let's get to know one another.Here's a few things about me ahead of time so you already know.And therefore I don't have to re-type this crap to you so read up.

About Me:I'm 39yrs.old turning 40 In September yes I am a libra.I have no sexual dieases at all never have never will either.I don't have sex w/out a condom I dont care who you are.If you don't approve of using a condom then move on I'm not that trusting nor a sucker.I don't sleep around at all I'm a one man kind of woman.And you should be a one woman kind of man towards me.I have nor will I ever be Interested In a woman,couple,submissive male.If that Is what you are wanting pass me by again plz cause.You will only be wasting your time responding to me and expecting an email you wont get.
If you dont live In the state of Mass then keep moving as well.I have no Interest In anything long distanced at all.Nor do I cyber or have phone sex at all thoses are just games.If you are going to send me an email on here at least have a picture.If you don't have a pic you wont get an email back from me.I've been a sub since I was 14yrs.old and during that time I've only had two Dom's each one I treasure greatly.Now If you are over weight,less than 10yrs.exp,In the Dom lifestyle move on please.
When sending me an email don't let It start off as I'VE NEVER HAD A BLCK GIRL BEFORE.That's the most stuipdest reason to come at me and I do get a lot of thoses.
I'm 5'9drk.brwn hair short,light brwn eyes,156pounds fit fully,black/white female.Now after reading this you still want to know more about me then send me an email HERE only. And not your email address or phone
number thank you.

WOW!!! My b-day Is coming up fast here on the 25th cant wait to party. And cant wait to go to Maryland that day and get my first tattoo on Tues. I'm excited and looking forward to It all and seeing If getting your first tat really hurts.
Just want to say Thank You to all that have sent me messages.A lot has changed with me In the past few months.I am only looking for friends and nothing more than that.
I am currently In a relationship with a wonder man who Is living w/me.I wish you all the best and hope you all find what your looking for.

lol..another fake/wannabe found on here.the guy doesn't even know me at all and yet he wanna. order me to give him my emial addresses and crap i think it's funny.he's from kentucky which if he would have journal on here he. would have noticed that he is only wasting his time by sending me even an email letter.i suppose the fakes/wannabe's are getting more online than the real.

UPDATE:Read my profile before sending me stupid email letter's.

Have a picture cause without one your a LAIR/PLAYER/WANNABE.

NO AGAIN!! I'm not willing to
relocate to you at all.

Be 38-51yrs.old over that you are simply wasting your time here.
And yes age does matter to me greatly so deal with It.

NO AGAIN! I have no Interest In now or will I ever become collared or slave.If that Is what you want move on thank you.
Cause asking me to re-think about It I wont happen MY FINAL ANSWER.

I HAVE NO INTEREST IN:Bi males/females/couples/gays/ switches.If that's what you are pass me by I'm a straight sub.

DOUBLE NO:If you happen to ask me to send you my email address
or you send me your's right.From the start w/out more than 4 conversations your a FAKE.And you are just here looking to collect and I will go for that at all.

I WILL NOT come right out and call you Master/Sir/Dom.That Is something that's earn and not given.Just like asubmissive has to earn you well you have to earn her just as well.That Is If you want a good submissive at all who will give you that respect.

Here's the thing I dont have to give you my phone number.Or even my email address to prove I'm real.I know I'm real and that Is all that matter's to me.At least I have a picture on here to show who I am (cant say the same 4you).If you want a submissive that Is just gonna jump right In and call you sir/master.And not use her head but her C*unt to do the talking for her.Go right ahead If she does that will you so fast on here.What makes you think she's not doing with every other on this site?And before you say It yes I do have an attitude and I will tell you why.There's alotta fakes/ wannabe's on this site claiming to be somebody and the aren't.Plus noone takes the time to read a profile which makes reading what they sent funny ass all hell.

Last but not least Masters/Dom's/
Sir's whatever you wanna call yourself on here.Have common curiousity to read someone's profile/journal on here.That way when sending someone like me an email.You'll get the respect that you want and not the disrepect from me.It's just that simple If I can take the time to read your's do the same back.
And no that's not ordering you at all It's mainly just asking you.

Okay I'm looking for a dominante man that Is abosolutely serious.I have noticed there are alot of ppl on this site.That claim to be a dom male but really are just fakes period. If you do not live In the areas of Ct, RI,Mass then don't bother with me.I want someone local to where I live and NO ONENIGHTERS at all.Please have a picture to show how serious you are.I will not accept you telling me what you look like at all there. Are no excuess yes I have a pic to show but I WILL NOT SEND A PIC unless you send one first.I will not send out my email addy's either to prove I'm real I AM REAL without sending that to you.Please be Tall, Phyiscally Fit,Cauasian,d/d free,38 to
51yrs.old and have 8''and up cock.I would ask please have nude pics to show as well and face picture.I have thoses and will send only when you send your's not before then.
When sending me a message tell me why your Interested In me,how many years experience you've got, What you've done and haven't.Dont send me a message asking me to answer thoses questions w/out sayin why first.I've had that alot and tried of It completely so If your real then show It or simply go the F away.

To The Dominant Males,Look If you are seriously dominanting as you claim you are.Then you would have the respect to respond back to emails.And you would have pictures of yourselfs on this site Instead of. Trying to describe yourself and also wanting phone numbers.There are alotta wannabe's on this site that claim.To be a dominant male but they are really out for just a piece of ass.I will not be your piece of ass If that Is what you want then move on. Understand I'm a submissive and not a hooker or doormat for anyone.I'm looking for a dominant male who Is height/weight proportionate.He Is healthy and practices sex fully and that's It.I'd like to get to know a dominanting male who Is strict and demanding.He's devoted and also definitely committed to the sub he has.I'm looking for long-term and not short-term at all along with genuine consistency.If you have no Interest on your profile that you've done.Or how many experiences you've had along with no pic.Then I would say don't bother contacting me at all. Cause If you can see my picture then I should be able to see your's.And please try reading my profile before sending.Me an email about what do I like and what I've experienced.When all that Info Is In my profile try askin me something.That Isn't In my ad on this site here that you would like to know about me.

Hello everybody hope everyone's search Is going well.The reason I am writting In my journal today.Is simply because I'm tired of liars. Meaning that to many men come on this site claiming.To be a Dom or Master but really just full of It.I hate when someone sends me a message.
And asks me the utmost dumb ass questions on here.Such as asking me what are my Interest are.When If they took the time to look they would see that.Their questions as to what my Interest are In my profile here.Look I want a smart Dom noticed that I didn't say Master.
That should basically give you a hint there and If not then oh well. I have NO Interest In been a slave at all.If a slave Is something you are currently looking for well then move on.Cause I'm not a slave and never will be either.I am strong minded and know who I am completely.
I'm not quick to call anyone that I don't know or haven't met a dom. I do respect everyone on here but find It extremely funny.Someone who don't even know you or any thing about you at all.Wanting to  be demanding to you and order you around.Now what a perfect example here well here's one.
Just the other day someone who I have never talked with before. Had sent me a message stating that he's my dom::laughing:::at that statment fully.So I sent him a message back stating what would give him that impression.
He said cause I'm black and he wants me and will own me.Now come on that's completely funny right.I replied back that he know's nothing about me at all.And he said he didn't care he wants me anyway"WACKY"man.So from that moment I blocked him while still laughing at him.
I don't want noone wanting me just because they want me that's stuipd.If you truely want to know me and see where things can go. Then at least have the smarts to know you've got to start off as friends first.Before even thinking of going futher Into anything.And that's how It works and builds you can not.Expect someone to just up and jump Into a long-term d/s relationship with you.
Here are the things that will get my attention.

1)If you are Interest In me tell me why you are Interested?
2)Let me know how long you've been a dominant male?
3)How many years of experience have you had?
4)Have a picture to show who you are that way.I know you are not a fake or lair at all?
5)What kinds of things have you not experienced and would like to?

The wrong reasons to contact me:
1)No picture.
2)If you don't live In the United States.
3)If you are a switch male or a submissive male.
4)If you are a bi-sexual male.
5)If you are a couple looking for another submissive.
6)If you aren't d/d free at all.
7)If you only want to know me cause of the color of my skin.Or because of my pictures In my ad.
8)If you've never been with a black female before.And you want me to be your first black submissive.

Here Is how you can tell a man Is a fake:
1)When he comes right out and ask for you email address just to talk and get to know you.
2)When he gives you the excuess that the only way.You'll see a pic of him Is on another site.Cause he's to lazy to post on here.
3)When he tells you that he can't post a picture on here cause.He's got to be discreet he's MARRIED.
4)When he only wants to know about you but Is.Not willing to tell you anything about himself at all.
5)With when you've responded to him he expects you.To tell him all about you even private things.
6)When he just starts right off and wants to be demanding.
7)When he just up and gives you his phone#or email address.And tells you that If you are serious. About finding the right dominant male then either you'll call him. Or you talk to him on his email address cause It's easier for him that's "BS".

No matter what type of relationship your in mutual respect and trust is needed. BDSM is no different infact the whole lifestyle is built on that foundation, it doesnt matter if your Dom, Domme, sub,slave or Switch you need to be able to trust and respect your partner. This does not happen overnight it takes time and patience. So many people seem to get sucked into believing that this is an instantanious process and feel the need to begin the D\s part of the reletionship straight away, personally I think it should be done one step at a time to allow people to really get to know one another.
 
Now alot of what Im going to say here is common sense but there are afew tips for people who are new to the lifestyle.
 
Be careful when your meeting someone for the first couple of times. Online is a great way to get introduced to someone but anyone who has any great experience knows that what you see online isnt always what you get. Also let someone know where your going and who you are going to meet.
 
I think its also a good idea to have a safeword setup during the first few play sessions. When your feeling someone out for the first time it can really help put everyones mind at ease.
 
Dont exadurate about the things that you have done before, if you dont know what your doing and you make mistakes people can get hurt. If you dont know something dont be scared to ask!
 
Always respect limits they are set for a reason. and if you want to try something new or
push limits talk about it first.


A safe word is used t stop the action when participating in a BDSM scene. For instance, if you were giving your partner a heavy spanking, how would you be able to discern whether a panted "no no no!" meant "stop it right now I don't like this" or "don't stop, that feels incredible!"?

For this reason, it is common to choose a particular word as your safe word, a word that is only used to mean one thing, "Stop the action right now!!!".

There have been many articles written regarding the need for safe words in order to practice BDSM safely. What is rarely discussed is the wonderful freedom a safeword creates.

When vicariously heading out on the path of dominance and submission, exploring many new activities and experiences, it's hard to feel entirely certain that what you are doing is okay with your partner. Are they hurt for "real"? Do they like what you are doing to them? Will they stop if you need them to? How will you communicate that you've reached your limits, without hurting any feelings?

A safe word, when used properly, creates a situation where you are free from such worries. The submissive can truly let go, able to scream, to cry, to whimper, to moan, to fight, to say "no no no no no" and none of these things will stop the action, when she/he truly wants it to continue. The dominant partner can have confidence that all is well, and that they are not causing their submissive true harm.

When safe words are used effectively, an environment of incredible trust can be created. Boundaries and limits can be pushed and explored knowing that in extreme situations, and extreme situations only, the action will be stopped with one word.

Both dominants and submissives will gain safety and freedom by using a safe word. The following are a couple of tips for creating and using a safe word in your scenes.

– pick a word that you would never use during the scene, such as "octopus".

– some people like to use traffic light colors. "Yellow" can be a warning that things are getting a little too heavy. "Red" will mean stop the action no matter what. "Green" then starts the action up again.

– when the safe word is used, stop everything you are doing, undo any bonds, remove any gags, and find out what is going on. NEVER continue the action after a safe word has been said until the situation has been resolved.

– never use a safe word as a joke and reserve it only for serious issues. For example, don't say your safe word just because you want your hand untied to itch your nose.

– trust your safe word. Know that it will be used if necessary, and know that the action will stop if/when it is used.

– a safe sound or action may be needed in certain scenes, for instance when someone is gagged. Some people will use a series of grunting sounds. Others will hold an object in their hand, and dropping it is the safe signal.

– in a few instances, one partner may wish to stop the scene even if the safe word has not been used. Sometimes, people push themselves past their own limits.
Today I visited this website that was sent to me from.Someone whom I've never talked with at all.His name is Max and he is from Canada and the website. That he sent to me was what I would say Is refreshing to me. But anyway there Is all kinds of stories about d/s realtionships. And the very kind that I myself am seraching for on this site.It completely describes what I'm logging for.
And what I personally look for In a dominant male Is simply. This here someone who Isn't about just been sexual but he. Wants a strong d/s realtionship that go's beyond that nature.I would like to have a dominant male who Is not.About trying to turn his submissive Into some street whore.
He appreciates he been totally submissive towards him.He been submissive towards him brings him satisfaction.It's not something she has to do but It Is something she wants to do.I could only dream of having a dominant man.Who would want to ravish my body,throughts and more.
He has such a energy In him that he can't wait until we are together.And he takes me as his property and takes me on journey's I've never been.And when I say journey's I mean as to the erotic side of It.I mean he has the skills entirely to do this.Me personally I would like to have a dominant male who Is.Entirely about been a dom and daddy to his submissive.I enjoy been treated like daddy's little girl and having.
To be taught how to obey and do as daddy wants and knowin. That If I don't there could and would be some discipline.Puttin me over your lap and corner time and things HIGHLY good. He's my dom/daddy who wants his respect and his words heard at all times.There's so much I would like to put on this site as to what.I'm looking for in a dominant male but can't for now.But If while were chatting  there is some compatibility I will tell you what they are.
But there also has to be some kind of chemistry,attraction and interest we share first.
Yes there are some steamy dark fantasies that I personally.Can tell you about after chatting, getting to know you.My attitude and my devotion Is strong fully towards the right person.So If you have patience and willing to get to know me and.
You will to take things slowly and get to know one another. Then please by all means send me an email but first my profile ad on here.And know what my Interest are before replying to me okay.Cause I refuse to have to explain to you at all that's annyoing.Also have a pic to show yourself that Is current and this year's.
Descibing yourself does me no good at all I wanna know.I'm talking with a MAN and not some Trans or Woman at all. And If you have no pictures you can put on this site.But have It on your personal email address don't bother me.Cause If you have no time to put a picture of yourself on here.Then I have no time to get to know you at all.
No Pic,No Interest in your ad on here NO RESPONSE by me.
Okay just so ppl will stop askin me what i'm looking for on this site.I will say right now in this journal for all to read now.

1)Dominant Caucasian male only physically fit.And mentally stable is a MUST no crazies.
2)Dominant male who is also patient and not looking.To rush into a d/s relationship or ask for email addresses.
3)Dominant male between the ages of 38y/o to about 48y/o.
4)Dominant male who has a pic to prove what he looks like.To many "BS"on ppl lying about their appearance.Unfortunatly here's way to many liars on this site.So please have an update pic of yourself that's this years.
5)Dominant who is d/d free an is a MUST as well.
6)A dominant male who is okay with been a vanilla as well.

Here is what i don't want:

1)A dominant male who is out of shape.
2)A dominant male who is fast to give out his email address and his phone number.
3)A dominant male who is not patient.And understand that it takes time to build up to a d/s relationship.
4)A dominant male who's lookin to cheat on his wife.
5)A dominant male who has an excuse of all kinds.For not having a picture on the site.
6)A dominant male who does not live in the US.
7)A dominant male who's only into online play.But he's not into the r/t at all.

Yes i am extremely opinionated that's very obvious.And i give my apologies for been like that. But i'm not here to play games at all with anyone.Yes i do have strong preferences just like you do.When it comes to finding a submissive or a slave right you. Want the right submissive or slave you are looking for and i am sure.You would want her to be attractive looking in your eyes correct.Well that's how i am towards a dominant male if he's not attractive looking.Then i can't be with him just like you couldn't with a sub or slave.So many might have their opinions on this matter.And that's okay but i wont settle for just any kind of dominant man on here. There has got to be some kind of chemistry and connection with him.Without that there can not be a d/s relationship with that person at all.Well if you've gotten this far and you are.
Possibily interested in getting to know me then.Please send me a message on here and i will reply back.
If you send me an email asking what my interest are...duh they are listed on the left side of the page.This tells me that you are lazy or illiterate...either way you wont get a response from me.And obviously you are fully wasting my time and your's.I
mean seriously guys take the time to read.My profile before sending me an email asking me anything worthless.Please as
be elaborate on why you've sent me an email.
It is very annoying getting an email asking me what i like and don't like.When of course like everyone's else profile ad on here.I'm specific as to what i am looking for and not lookin for.Previously it's come about on this site there are alot of wannabe's.
If you have my heart you have  my submissivenesss,devotion but not my life.BDSM is an indispenable part of my life but no interpretation of it.I am and will always be a submissive but not a slave to ANYONE.
If you are in you're 20's or 50's and you are over weight.Do not bother sending me a message. If you do not live in the US and you have no pic do not bother. You will only waste your time and the message.
Will only be deleted that is all that will happen there.And i am a submissive not a slave get it right.If you want a slave i am not for you at all.And i am not willing to become a slave at all. I am not into cybering or role playing online either.
Please do not ask for my email address you wont get it.And i will not give you my phone# either.And if me not giving you thoses things makes me.Look like i am fake so be it then i don't care.You look more like a fake for just asking for it.
If threw conversations there is chemistry and interest.I will give you my email address but i will.Not give it when you want me to only when I WANT TO.








Guys if you dont have a pic on the site here.If you are not in the united states.And you are in your 50's please. Don't send me a message i will not respond to you.And in advance if you should ask.Do i have yahoo/aol the answer is yes but that.Does not mean i will be giving it to you.
Save yourself the trouble of even asking the questions. If you feel me been this way is a bad thing.Tough  deal with it and move on.I am honest and blunt fully.
I am not on here to play games w/anyone.If you want someone whom is about.Playing wannabe's games then i am not for u.