Hello, I hate doing these things. I'm relatively new to the lifestyle just at a year of experience. One of the things I'm looking for is the trust we must have for and from the submissive that we use. At my age the shiny is off a lot of things in our day to day. To have the care and protection of a trusting partner or sub seems to me that that would be an awesome gift. I am a V.N.vet I was there for 2yrs. I like the bondage and discipline aspects of this lifestyle. My awareness of my dominant sexual nature has come relatively late in life but it's sure nice to understand more of me and not feel like a freak. I'd love get to know like minded people. I hope I can. Finding someone to enjoy my life with would be nice and it would be good to make friends as well as lovers. I would like friendship to be the base for any relationship. no matter how involved it gets. I want my potential to be honest and of course all the other goody things people say they want on these sites and profiles except please no perfect ones. Degrees of the desired attributes are what makes getting together so much fun. I want to be able to be kind to people and especially my submissive.(That doesn't mean you won't get spanked) If you don't want to respond that's quite alright, and I wish you success in your search. However, if you do want to respond I'm sure I'd be glad to acknowledge your interest. Thanks and good luck.