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"Slightly caddish... never entirely trustworthy... but in a really nice likeable way."
Single sadomasochistic switch seeks smart sarcastic submissive or delightfully devious divine dominant dame de contrôle for assonance and alliteration.
Having identified as a dominant sadist for a long time, I now identify as a pan-kinky switchy swishy pervert, but always a romantic gentleman with a dark, shiny edge.
The horns are only there to keep the halo in place, I swear.
I'm a highly driven and successful professional, fairly blunt and open, with an innate curiosity, a great sense of humor, and a desire to be good at whatever I do. I adhere to RACK (not SSC) because what I do is always risk-aware and consensual but not necessarily "sane" and there is nothing about this world that is truly "safe".
I have three interests in building relationships:
- An emotionally intimate SM and D/s relationship with a mature and multi-faceted person
- Friendships with people who have a clever, dark, and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor
- Casual SM play, D/S, or service with girls or certain boys aged 18-40
I would be very happy in a monogamous relationship. However, I've also done long-term poly and monogamish, and in the right circumstances I would do it again. I have an evolving cuckold fetish which I think could be explored either as fantasy play or "for real" as a half-open relationship (open for my partner but monogamous for me).
I am a physical and emotional sadomasochist - I enjoy causing and receiving pain, discomfort, and humiliation. SM play involving D/S is even more exciting. It is fun, liberating, joyful, vital, and sexy as hell.
I also enjoy comforting and supporting my partner in and out of the bedroom. (Yes, I have a rather large romantic streak.) I have a strong sense of justice and ethics, am intensely loyal to my friends, and great in a crisis.
I like to play with people with whom I can have fun and scintillating conversations. I'm a bit of a geek and do-it-yourselfer, and an avid fan of MythBusters, but I promise not to try most of the experiments on my play partners.
For me, BDSM play is inherently sexual but that doesn't mean it has to involve any sexual contact. I love many forms of sexualized power including tease and denial, chastity play, etc.
I enjoy roleplaying, and my favorite themes involve one person consensually "forcing" the other to engage in a particular activity - not always sexual, though I love rough sex. Let's face it, consensual non-consent is just super hot.
When it comes to the people with whom I like to have sex: I find women of many body types and "looks" beautiful. I tend to be fairly conservatively dressed, but tattoos and many types of piercings are very attractive. With guys I'm more picky: I'm mostly attracted to twinks and bois. I usually prefer cisgendered people, but that is not code for trans-phobia and I've been attracted to a number of trans men, women, and genderqueers. |
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