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I'm interested in developing a relationship with someone who happens to be into BDSM. I'm not into those whose take themselves too seriously with this. There are no rules or regulations and if you think there are then you need to find another hobby. Balance in life is important.

Just to clear something up. I want my dom and sub to be different people. I'm not looking to meet another switch because I have specific preferences for each. For example, I like my doms to be around my age or older, and my subs to be younger than 30 (ideally, though, between 18-25). So if you're a 24-year-old switch you won't be able to dom me, and if you're a 45-year-old switch I don't want to domme you.

I think that I'm more submissive so a relationship with an open-minded dom is perfect, as I'd like to be able to be with a "boy" from time to time. Also, I'm open to my partner being with other people as well. Of course, this open relationship only works once I'm in love so don't think I'm OK with you going out and fucking whoever you want at the beginning.

1. I HATE leather.
2. I do not like the taste or texture of male cum so I do not like it in my mouth, down my throat, or in my face (anywhere else on my body is fine).
3. I'm not a pain slut.
4. Please live in Montreal (or be willing to relocate. I MAY relocate for the right person.)
5. Chemistry is #1 (which means looks are important to me).
6. If your profile has no pic, send one with your message.


We really don't know what ppl are like in the bedroom, which is why I hate the word vanilla. I've never had a vanilla relationship in my life, unless you want to count the boy at camp. I think it devalues the kink factor that exists in all of us by assuming other ppl are vanilla just cuz they don't call themselves "dom" or "sub." We're not fucking special!

What's with this not into KIDS bullshit? It shouldn't even be a fucking option or a consideration and I'm sick of seeing it as a limit on people's profiles! It's called pedophilia and it's wrong and illegal. It should be a NON-ISSUE and never even spoken of as something you would or wouldn't do. It's insensitive and ignorant and disrespectful to the millions of children abused around the world!
There are really two kinds of submissives in the world: those who believe they don't deserve any better -- and those who believe they don't deserve any less.


I do not want to be part of an already established couple. I'm no one's third or second-best bitch! I have no problem with the concept unless I AM PART OF the original couple. I'm getting a lot of poly households and couples messaging me. In all of my 3somes I've always already been part of the 2some. 

I enjoy being submissive because of the act itself, not because it's pleasing someone else. Wanting to make someone happy is not where my submission comes from.
WTF is up with "body play"? It's quite a loose term to say "punching the shit outta someone." Why don't they just call it "punching?" If punching is too controversial then defend it don't blanket it and call it something else. Personally, I think it's too close to actual abuse. Making a fist just brings up too much of a violent image for me. Not the same as using a tool to do the damage or a flat hand.
I read this on someone's profile and completely agree both as a sub and Domme. "Compliance comes from wanting to please, not from the fear of punishment."