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SUBMISSION IS A CHOICE ->
I'm the right choice.
Dominant female, with over 20yrs experience in kink.
Absolutes:
-Real Life play only, no online training! Not looking for a cyber sub.
-Local to the Seattle Metro area only.
-Please have some real life experience, not just D/s porn.
-I don't do "discrete" play; if you're attached, then look for a pro.
-Attraction is subjective, so have a pic posted, or send one with your email.
If you are interested, email me. I usually reply.
I am not a Pro...
I enjoy gifts, and being taken out to a nice dinner, even travel, but don't want to be paid for my company, or my dominance.
My "list of interests" is really filled with things I may enjoy, see "lives for", for things I�really enjoy, �likes, for things I enjoy sometimes, and for things I am willing to do ~�if asked nicely,*begging helps*~�see tolerates, and curious about.
I enjoy D/s play, but I often enjoy the S&M more. I would prefer to find someone who can make most of their decisions on their own. I am sadistic in play, but only occasionally cruel. I like taking someone to the edge of their limits (wherever that may be) and pushing just past. I am sadistic, as well as tender. I enjoy being pampered, but also enjoy taking care of my sub.
I am a real person, can you cope with that. I have lived abroad. I have multiple degrees, and can probably debate you into the ground. As my pics testify to, my curves are in proportion to my ability hold an intelligent conversation. You need to be able to stand up to me, and keep up with me intellectually.
�I believe honesty and integrity are paramount in any friendship or relationship. Relationships should be monogamous with some room for discussion in play.
I am not your typical Domme, I can and will expect you to have an opinion, and voice it. If you have no backbone, then are you really choosing to submit?
I do not fit into a box,�not in my clothing, my friends, my hobbies, or my kinks. I can however fit into most groups, (so long as they don't look under the covers,) but usually prefer to hang out with a more alternative crowd.
I am looking for a "gentleman" with a willingness to try new things and explore new places. Financially and emotionally stable. I may not expect you to support me, but I am not going to support you. Men, 27-42 (these numbers are pretty firm, unless you're extraordinary,) active, and healthy. Nice guys do not finish last here, they're the only one's who get to enter the race. I like men who are taller than me, so 5'9" and up. I enjoy travel and going out, as well as staying in. I enjoy public play and I would expect it of you from time to time.
Please either know how to dress attractively, or be willing to let me choose your clothes.
I have a high libido, so don't bother to contact me if your idea of an active sex life is once a week. You should have the confidence to know what you want, and even better if it's me!
Note: I am looking for a man to share my life..in the abstract. In my mind "As you wish" really does mean "I love you". Ultimately, while I am enjoying having fun right now, and don't plan or require instant commitment, I would like to find the one who makes my heart sing.
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So I will be at SEAF on multiple evenings again this year. I hope to see some sexy subs/bottoms/switches out there. If you see me, and meet my "looking for" parameters, you should approach me and say hello. |
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I can't believe it's this hard to find a sub who isn't looking to be denied sexually. http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0159.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" />
The concept of cuckoldry may sound fun, but the reality is a lot more complicated than it's really worth, fun wise. http://cdn.collarspace.com/images/smileys/0013.gif" border="0" alt="{#}" /> |
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I'm part Irish, you can pick the part to kiss. |
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Hope you like the new pics...just for you fellows who really love both a nice pair of feet, and a nice pair of heels. |
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 http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0027.gif">What part of local only don't people understand??!!?? GRRR |
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Went to the SEAF Launch party last night. It was both less than I was expecting, and a better time than I hoped. |
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I'll be in Portland the last weekend of March... |
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it seems to me that the passive aggressive tendancies encountered in dating only become worse when you get to hide behind a web site. I prefer honesty gentlemen, even if it's disappointing. Don't be cowards. |
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I would really like to celebrate Valentine's day my way. I celebrate the mortification of St. Valentine. Bonus to the person who knows how the term mortification might apply in this context. |
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I have a collection of vintage aprons and a new scrub brush. Now I need some good little bitch to scrub my floor wearing the former, using the later.
I suppose I also need to have time to schedule it. Sigh... life is too busy. I have no time for naughty things lately.
I know, all work and no play... |
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So I'm back in school...again. Studying nursing this time. Actually I am currently working on my prerequisites for nursing.
I am seriously going to need to dress someone up like a geeky Chemistry professor and beat them black and blue by the end of this quarter.
Actually my Chem professor is a hot young Irish lass. *WEG* |
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Well I am finally back online...I love computers...I hate them as well. I promise to check my email more often...not truly ignoring all you lovely boys and men. ;) |
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I am really serious about this search.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
I want to find a man who understands that I should be pampered and cared for. I am looking for a man/sub who recognizes that I am first a woman, and only second a Domme. I have a life and needs as well as frailties and insecurities just like any other person. If you want a Domme who's always in character, then you don't want RL, you want a fantasy. If that is the case, I suggest a professional Domme, who's job it is to stay in character, and who gets to put on her fuzzy pj's only after you leave. You can hold on to that fantasy and stay http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>. |
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Happy New Year 2008 everyone... |
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To Geek or Not to Geekhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0013.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
Seattle is full of geeks. Pretty much every male sub I come in contact with here is a geek. I like geeks, many of my friends are freaks or geeks, but I'm tired of dating emotionally unavailable, passive aggressive men. There have got to be some loving, well socailized, male subs here on the west coast. It can't just be an east coast phenomenon.
I've gotten to the point in looking for a quality sub for more than play, that I am seriously considering only dating vanilla men, (who are cool with me playing with female subs on the side.) |
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Is it wrong that I got really aroused during the torture scene in Casino Royale (the latest Bond flick). http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0069.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
There is this one part where Daniel Craig's nuts are being tortured, and all I could think is, WHIMP! That is until the character starts yelling, "Yes, yes, yes! To the left!" I think I frightened my fairly vanilla friend with the look on my face. I was nearly drooling.
Anyone up for a torture and interrogation scene? |
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http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0008.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>If you are married, or in a serious relationship, that should bloody well be included in your profile...Oh and don't bother contacting me if either are true for you. |
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To all the Passive Aggressive Subs out there, my question is this:
How hard is it to send a reply note stating that someone does not fit your preferences when you receive an email from a Domme. I mean get real, you should feel lucky that one of us bothers to contact you. I may not be your cup of tea, as I am strong, bold and distinct.
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I get really quite frustrated having to spell out the basic information that someone might like to know to every fellow I meet online. Here is a general list...
Most online dating sites will ask you to include the following information in completing a profile:
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Sometimes life is just good. http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0016.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> |
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