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Female Submissive, 39, Hopatcong, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 55
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Male Dominant, 32
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About BlueRiverUK
First we cannot take this lifestyle without a bit of humour and friendliness. So let's enjoy it and have fun
We are all different, we are all individuals I am a kinky hedonistic heterosexual dominant, who is in search of a sensuous fun-loving submissive woman, one who is looking to be taken to kinky places that she deeply desires to go. I am a thinker with a creative mind as well as someone who enjoys the physical side of life. I am regarded by many as a gentleman, I am polite.
I am an active, intelligent, creative person and I am looking for a woman who has matching qualities. I am looking for a dynamic intimate intellectual relationship that grows and develops as we both expand our knowledge and experience together. When you are my sub, you are my woman, my lover, my friend, and you will be adored, looked after, as you serve my needs and your adoration of me. Our perfect yin-yang relationship will be forged into something that is strong and powerful for both of us.
I am a genuine single, tall, smartly-dressed, natural dominant gentleman with wide experience in this lifestyle. I am intelligent,confident, educated, well spoken, energetic, openminded and creative. Honesty and loyalty are important to me.
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To be frank, and it is very hard thing to say: I am a lonely Dom! It is difficult to admit it but its true! So why should that be? A Dom should be able to have anything he wants? Yes, and no, to a certain critical point, and, that is, IF he can find want he is looking for. Sadly that hasn't happened yet and so I continue to search! It's hard and I would love to chat and hope that this place isn't just for fantasists but real people looking for a real D/s relationship. I have come to the point that I may just go where that special woman is if necessary. |
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Back on here to find a compatible, compliant submissive. Please contact me if you feel you are interested. |
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Yes real genuine Doms do exist! I am still looking for my submissive - if you are one, please have a look at my profile. |
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The road to freedom - this where you end up, when you meet the right person. A likeminded complimentary person. No more lies, no more deceit, no more cover ups, or ashamed of your lifesrtyle choice, just honesty and fulfillment like no other. |
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What we are looking for us is very rare and not for everyone is into this lifestyle. The one thing I have learned from being on a site like this, is that you have to be very patient - more than that - extremely patient - patiently waiting to find that very special person. |
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Been a way for a while - back to have a view again. Nothing's changed - still looking for a female partner who is looking for an alpha man and erotic pervy twist to it. Heart to heart, soul to soul! Life gets shorter with every passing day! |
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Question of dominance and submissiveness? These are two opposites that only work with the right 2 people. So many of us are looking for the right kind of partner and there are so many different types here! That dynamic is built on the same principles we find in looking for a vanilla relationship - chemistry being the most important. Then there is the type of relationship, which is all down to the needs of each other, trust and honesty, and an openmind. In the D/s relationship this is down to developing that dynamic between us and unearthing the very things that make us both satisfied and happy. |
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A Beautiful Mind: It's true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When we hear that cliche, we immediately think of the physical look of the person, but the total beauty includes the mind of that person. To me, it's one of the essential ingrediences of a good relationship. |
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Thought of the day: A great photographer is a true voyeur. A great model/subject is a true exhibitionist. The dynamic between the capturer (photographer) and the captive (subject/model) can be very powerful. But you don't have to a super-model to be an exhibitionist. It's not all about beauty but something much deeper. It's down to the photographer to bring out the true essence of his subject. So any woman can be a model, ready to allow the photographer reveal who she is, whatever that is.
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Outting a closet exhibitionist! Exhibitionism is an important part of my BDSM lifestyle. Whether it is public play or desire see my sub in kinky clothes, or to take erotic images of her. I know not all submissives are into this, but could I ever draw that side out of her? |
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Alone Dom: Rarely does anyone read my profile, never mind contact me. I have written a genuine profile and yet there's little or no interest. I am not looking for sympathy, just stating a fact. Can anyone explain why this is to me? |
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I am having some really interesting chats with genuine people which is encouraging! So far so good!! |
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Communication is vital for this lifestyle. The more we understand each other the more fun we can have and we can avoid unnecessary pitfalls. Politeness makes that experience even better. |
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Well I have been on this website a few days and I enjoy reading other people's profiles . Often the same needs are written - some short - some long - and yet every word used appears to have a different meaning to each of us - a different sort of desire, a different association or memory. So what we think others may want, may not be what you think they want at all! I guess it's why I see so many profiles mention: like finding a "needle in a haystack"! So very true it is! |
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Just joined this Collarspace - with its new name! So I will see how this goes. I hope I will get to find some new friends a long the way who we can share our experiences and needs. I am not rushing into any new full blown relationship as I have just finished one. But I am looking for my new submissive for the future. I am happy to play without any sexual involvement. |
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