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bindingyou

bindingboy
Male Submissive, 34
Male Dominant, 36, Greensboro, North Carolina
Male Dominant, 45, saugus, Massachusetts
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About bindingyou

Read my profile, before writing. You might learn something about me. novel idea!

The mind is a terrible thing to waste!

Do you enjoy being treated as a object for the pleasure of others, submitting to anything that is asked of you? Rest assured, I will take what I want from you, and do what I want with you as my property. If you communicate well you will get what you need too. Offer yourself

If your really not looking for anything or not sure what your looking for, I am cool with that. All I require is, just don't pretend to be something you aren't and we will get along, if you want to get to know me :)

I prefer younger then myself with a high sex drive. I also prefer someone that takes what they want and need seriously, and want someone willing to take them seriously as well. Dont play any vanilla BS games with me. Those games get boring real fast!

To those that think a sadistic Master like me is scary, I'm not scary, its the ideas floating around in your head that really scare you. I just bring those demons out to play. Not to worry, I wont let you seriously harm yourself. :)

My activities list is not complete, intentionally. Hell, I like most BDSM activities, and have done most everything. But, I find that many sub/slaves try to filter for those that like what they "think" they like. A totally useless endeavor, from my point of view, if you have any plans to learn and grow in this lifestyle you need to be brave and open about yourself. Just because I like something doesn't mean you need like it to, or do it. I allow limits, if you just cant take it. What more could a slave ask for..

I'm a real-time lifestyle Alpha Master type, not much for online role-play, unless I know you very very well. I like to reach out a physically touch people, as it should be. Being a Master is not a role for me, its just who I am.

After some confusion a had to add the following. HAVE A PICTURE IN YOUR PROFILE OR SEND ME ONE WHEN WRITING. Additionally, this place is full of frauds and scammers, expect to verify your identity in short order or don't waste your time writing to me.

I'm an educated, street smart, creative man with a dark sadistic side. I'm masculine, strict, non-judgmental, mentally strong, and expect those around me to do what pleases me.. Being dominant always came natural to me. I'm not some player, roaming around looking for an ass to spank, pretending to be dominant. If that's what your looking for check some more profiles. I am protective of those around me, but at times you will suffer and even cry by my hands. Can you handle it?

All I will say about myself relative to BDSM experience is this. I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and been trained by some of the best. Many activities I like, many I love, some I will never do again. All that being said, I am very good at what I do ;) I embrace my dominant nature and greatly appreciate and respect those that choose to offer themselves to me.

Don't present yourself with 20 questions about what BDSM activities I like. The most important thing is what activities you like and what activities or situations you see yourself involved in. Be prepared to speak openly about yourself with me. If you cant do that, what is your point of contacting me. Your privacy will be assured.

I like genuine people that can honestly and bravely communicate their feelings, needs, and interests. If you cant be honest about who and what you are, what's the point.

You either like being a submissive/slave or you don’t. If you like it you should honestly embrace it, and explore it. Preferably with someone honest, experienced, and capable like me. As long as we both agree on the terms of your submission. I am not saying I will agree. I don't care who the fuck you think you are, if you cant communicate well, cant serve, and wont learn, what use are you to me.

You need to be flexible and open minded to be around a man like me. I'm an "all of the above" type of person. If you like being anonymous, that can always be arranged. I am also generally a private man, but I have been seen at BDSM events and participate in activities with other dominants and/or submissives that I feel I can trust. Not many earn that kind of trust with me.

I am not interested in people looking to get paid for their services.. Seriously, get a life. I should be charging you for some of the things I could do to you or teach you. Also, don't bother trying to scam me out of money, I will know within a few emails if your real.

Also open to talk about the lifestyle with others. Open to train or do scenes with those local to me, and possibly those that are visiting Vegas, if I feel motivated to do so.

I have trained Doms, subs, slaves, domestic slaves, sex slaves, and pain sluts. Also been protector & Daddy to others. Just say hi and whats on your mind. I may sound scary to some people, but I never dominate anyone without their permission. So, your safe talking to me.

You should be able to spell, have thoughts, ideas, and goals. Your glass should be half full. You should enjoy being exploited and used for a Masters pleasure without permanent harm coming to you. I am interested in slaves not doormats. There is a difference, if you didn't know it.


Just to let you know I was on this site in 1998, when it was pretty much some D/s couples and not a very active site. When I recently returned my profile was gone, so I created this one.

I actually got blocked today by some weird girl. Never been blocked before. All I did was ask her for a candid pic, when all she had were pro shots in her profile. And she called me creepy and blocked me... roflmao... She should look in a mirror...

Are there any real honest people on this site or is the whole place a figment of someones imagination.

Things you might consider taking to heart.

Trust is hard to earn, and very easy to lose, and even harder to earn back.

Dont confuse yourself. The above applies to submissives as much as it does Dominants.

If you don't take control of your life, and roam through life letting shit happen to you, you usually end up with crap.

Being honest is the most important policy you can have in life. Without it you offer others nothing but disappointment.

He /she that collects the most toys doesn't win, in the end it only matters how many people will come to your funeral.

It takes two people to speak the truth: One to speak and another to hear.

Henry David Thoreau

Most of the women on this site are as bad as the men they complain about. Just be open and honest about who you are and stop pretending to be something else. Eventually, you can't hold up the act and then all you have done is wasted everyone's time and look stupid in the process.

I have found a few women on this site that are real and don't pretend to be something they are not. I am not saying they are all right for me, but they do exist, thank god.

How do you know a person, with character and substance, when you see them.

Is it where they was born, how they grew up, the clothes they wear, the car they drive?

No! Its the choices they make; Not how they starts things, but how they decide to end things.

Slavery Is Giving Someone The Power To Destroy You... But Trusting Them Not To.

Just moved into a 4BR.. Cant wait to finish my dungeon. Got a nice high ceiling for my suspension equipment. YES!

There are some really stupid people on this site that think way to much of themselves.  Here is an example of a girl local to me, I wrote to a month ago. Here is the original message I sent her about a month ago.

I am seriously looking for someone to serve me. While your interest look appealing you have not written what exactly your looking for.
I'm interested in talking to you about what you need in this world to feel fulfilled.
Master Tom

Now, she was totally new to the site and didn't have much in her profile, but she was local and I liked her pic. She never replied. No problem. What the hell do I care.

Today, I was browsing and reading profile and reading what people are saying about themselves and I happened on her profile again.. Still empty, except for some interests.

So, I wrote to her again. Explaining that she was wasting allot of peoples time because she had not completed her description. Hell, she is wasting allot of her own time too. So, I figured this would help her.


I wrote you once before and since you didn't reply, I expect your not interested in me. But, I want you to realize that not having a description telling people what your looking for or not looking for, wastes allot of peoples time. Maybe that is just how you are, not considerate of other peoples time. But the old say "what goes around comes around" usually ends up biting you in the ass eventually. Then again you might like that ;) To

So she writes me back, with this self glorifying crap. Stating the obvious, but never correcting herself. Yes, all us Masters are just assholes for trying to helping you get along in this world.. lol


if you hadn't been interested in my ass, you would not of cared if there was not a word on my profile. my ass tweeked your interest, you wrote and i didn't respond because as you guessed i'm not interested. you on the other hand now feel it important to lecture me on what you feel is bdsm etiquette. seems like you have wasted the most time, can't stand that i didn't jump for joy that you wrote me, and wasted more time lecturing me. just reinforces that i'm not interested in you.

So my parting shot to her was the following.

You really do think way to much of yourself. I was just browsing and saw you profile again and remembered you. Your just selfish and wasting everyones time. Its just the weak minded trying to feel powerful. Do you feel powerful now? Did you get your 5 minute fix?

Hell, she's probably just sitting there counting all those messages she get, thinking how wonderful she is! Conclusion, she's an idiot. This is what I meant when I was saying on a previous entry about the female tools on this site. You people all need to just go away, and save us real people all some time.

Hell, I rarely look in the mirror, but someone just told me I look like a cross between Patrick Dempsey & George Clooney.

I'm skeptical, what do you think?

And I don't like thinking of myself as a cross-breed... LOL...

Another pet peeve of mine. Dont present yourself, shaking your tits and ass at me, thinking it will gain any points with me. If i just wanted tits and ass, there are plenty of strip clubs in Vegas to visit, and fine ass women flying in and out of this city on a daily basis. That's so very vanilla.

Don't get me wrong, I like attractive women. And its always nice to have an attractive women sitting across the table from me while I am eating a meal, or sitting on the floor next to me while I eat, which ever the case may be. But, that is not what "makes me go", as a lifestyle Master.

Now, I might use those skills of yours, to twist some poor wannabe dominants mind, or some other poor soul, but its not something I roll over for.

Otherwise, you women that are like that, and you know who you are, need to focus your attention directly on the weak minded so called Dominants roaming this site. ie.. the tools.. Of course, as a submissive that would definitely defeat the purpose you are here for, wouldn't it?

I consider myself a reasonable man. Sadistic, strict also, but definitely reasonable.

I see the females complaining here about the male tools roaming the site, but i find just as many female tools on here also.

Example: female submissive writes me, with no picture or weight. "I'd like to learn more about you?  What happened to your last slave?  What sort of BDSM encounter do you seek?" No picture was included with the message. I didn't respond, two more emails come in from her. Again with no picture. Why would you think anyone would answer questions like this from someone hiding from the person they are writing to. I finally write, "I don't talk to people, or answer personal questions about my affairs, with people that are hiding from me."... And she blasts me for being rude.. What the fuck planet are you people on. If you want to talk to me, and your hiding from the world, send me a picture, or piss off.

There should be an additional classification for interests, "Scares the shit out of me".

After reading many submissive/slave profiles here, it is obvious that many have no real time experience to define the "Hard Limits" they choose.

Of course, the other possibility is, the person they choose to do those activities with had no idea what the hell they were doing. Again, after reading many Dominant profiles this is pretty obvious.

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