It's simple I'll be the guy, you'll be the girl. If it's right you'll be loved, cherished and protected. You’ll receive everything you need to be fulfilled. Here's what I seek:
Thin to average build -important.
Small breasts (A-C)-somewhat important.
Good Morals -important.
Background check –maybe important.
Natural Intelligence -important.
Happy general disposition -important.
Mental Health -important.
Age -unimportant.
Conventional beauty -unimportant.
Wealth -unimportant.
Education -unimportant.
I hope my list has economized your effort. I’m a natural alpha male. If you are seeking someone who demands to be referred to as Master, Lord or Sir what-ever know that I am not your man. I’m not one seeking facile status display, ego enrichment or balm for inferior intellect at the expense of a woman. I cherish women, I do not use them. When my sub speaks my name she knows what it means, the rest of the world and its shibboleths do not and should not matter. If she wishes to apply those titles of her own volition that is fine.
I deeply believe that people have the right to arrange their lives along any lines that pleases them and is natural to their character.
I'm not enthralled with all aspects of BDSM as an end in it self, I’m much more inclined to what is generally classified as a D/s dynamic. Some aspects do overlap and of course the margins are fuzzy to begin with. Having said that understand that I will use anything necessary to move my sub to where she should be, but generally prefer a more artful approach as a sustaining method. If I have to use more that regular spankings to keep her in a continuous state mild arousal and in near subspace I feel that I’m failing in my duty.
I feel it’s counter productive to be too detailed about myself other than to say I meet my own criteria (except breast size!). Likewise the true submissive’s self reported details of likes and dislikes are but a superficial outline of her deeper needs…her genuine yearnings are far deeper and too private for public display.
I guess you could say that I have a life fetish and use particular “kinks” as tools to develop my sub. I certainly enjoy those activities but fulfilling them alone is not the primary goal of the union.
It comes down to this I must enter a dialog with a sub where we explore one another. Then I must meet her, feel her, smell her scent, and taste her. Then we will both know naturally where to go next.
