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So I was saying to myself..."Self" (Cuz that's what I call myself when no one's listening) I wonder what is going on out there in the world. What has changed (If anything). So I thought pop on here for the 1st time in forever to see how everyone is making it in life. If you have any news or anything worth sharing.... go ahead and share away. I'm very easy to entertain. |
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It seems that we live in a world of double standards. Lets just say that people amaze me...lol.
People expect others to be honest and loyal. But yet that make excuses for themselves and why they arean't.
Example: People expect their spouses to be honest and faithful. But yet they, themselves lie and cheat. They say things like "I'm only staying for the kids" or "My wife doesn't understand me" .. this is their excuse for lying and being dishonest. I mean it's ok because they have a "real" reason for doing it, right?...lol. But yet if they find out that their spouse has been cheating they get mad and throw a hissy.
You see, it's ok when they do it.. but it's so sadly wrong when others do it.
Here is the reality.... most people aren't honest, loyal or faithful. Think about about it. Of all the people you've known in your entire life... how many do you know that have actually, honestly lived up to these values. I'm sure you know more people who have cheated, than you have those who have been faithful.
How many people have lied to you, have cheated on you. How many people have you lied to, cheated on. (Be honest)
So what does this mean... it means that most people do not live up to the standards that they expect others to live up too.
But don't be sad... because it's not about other people. It's all about YOU! The only way for anything to change is that it has to start with YOU. If you're not going to do it... stop expecting others to.. and stop being pissed when others don't.
Class dismissed.......
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Ok.. I heard this, and I just have to add post it.
This guy said, and I quote ...
"I'm wearing Burger King underwear because it takes too hands to handle a Whooper"
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It amazes me how people you don't know and never even knew existed can pop into your mailbox out of the blue. Then when you do not act or answer them in the manner they believe you should.. They feel that it's not only ok for them to insult you.. but believe that it's their right to do so.
This is not only stupid.. but extremely childish.
People do amaze me so........ |
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Ok, I'm on a roll here. I'm not getting this thing where people put photos of their toy collection on their profile. Just because someone has a credit card and can buy floggers and cuffs doesn't make them Dom or sub. It's not a measure of how good a Dom or sub someone is. All it means is that they can buy toys. I mean they post these photos like it's really proving how good they are.
Then what's worse is when they put photos up of butt plugs and dildos. Now I'm not the smartest person in the world... but I know very few women who want to be inserted with a toy that was inserted into someone else before. So I would think that the fact that you keep used butt plugs around is a turn off for most intelligent women. (Now again not that I'm the smartest man on the planet... but whenever I have released a slave I have allowed her to take all of the insertion toys that were used on her. I feel no need to keep them)
Now don't get me wrong.. if that's what you're into.. I'm not knocking you. But like all things I bitch about.. I just don't understand it. When I see a profile that has a photo of toys.. the first thing that crosses my mind is that this person believes or feels that the most important part of D/s is play, and that they don't get the reality of it. But then again.. what do I know right.. I'm just a fake wannabe anyway? |
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Can anyone tell me why it is is so easy to convince newbies subs that the best way for them to learn and grow as a submissive is public play...lol! I'm sorry but I find it so funny that so many fall for this... then get defensive about why they do it. Guys and groups have been using this to play newbies for years. The line "you have to experience things to see what you like" always gets me.
Talk to most experienced subbies who have been in the life for real. And they will tell you that looking back on it, casual public play is something they all regret.
Sooner or later... it'll back fire on you.
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I love all of these profile of little girls who are "under the protection of".
I'm sure it's just me.. but, those profiles that say "you must ask permission from "Master Insecure" before contacting" are just so frigg'n stupid. I'm sorry, but I think it's so sad that any man.. more or less a "Dom" would be so insecure that he has to know everyone a sub chats with. This is truely a man with no trust, trust issues and certainly no life.
And, any "Dom" who would ask another for permission to do anything.... ok, don't make me go there. |
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I was watching a TV commercial the other day for teen girls that said "Possessiveness is not love". It was designed to teach teen girls the difference between love and abuse. And I thought... it's so sad that there are so many grown women who still haven't learn this.
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I do not understand the concept of owning or wanting to own someone you have never met!
But it must be just me.
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It amazes me (Ok.. so that's not a hard thing to do to me... But,) It amazes me how people confuse insecurity with Dominance.
The 1st sides of an abuser and/or insecure man is isolation. He insists that he wife, woman, subbie... "whatever" cut off all connection with the outside world. He doesn't allow her to speak with others. He reads her messages and mail... and basically tries to control her every contact. This doesn't happen over night... but he slowly but surely cuts her off from the world.
Lets face it.... If you put a chastity belt on someone and lock them in a cage.. it's almost impossible for them "not" to be loyal and trustworthy. If you do not allow them to speak with or make contact with anyone .. again, it would be almost impossible for them "not" to be loyal and faithful. But this is forced loyalty, and it's not real.
Again this are the signs of an insecure man. He fears that she will meet someone who will steal her away. He fears that she will find something or someone better better. He reads her email.. checks her voice mail...questions every move she makes. He hides his weakness, fear and insecurity in the disguise of protection and caring. But it is just plain insecurity.
Let me help some of you out here ..... Loyalty and trust come from freedom. In order for someone to "BE" loyal, trustworthy and faithful, they have to face temptation. Of course men are going to hit on her. That's the world we live it. But it's not about who hits on her.. it's about how "she" reacts to it. If she is loyal to her Master she could be hit on by 100 men a day, and it doesn't matter.
Now don't get me wrong here.. there's nothing wrong with caging... (enjoy that myself).. or a Master checking email or messages. But, there is a difference between being interested and being insecure. Why can't she have male friends or talk to other Doms. Is he that weak that he is afraid she will be tempted and be taken away? If she does run off.. she was never loyal to him in the 1st place.
A real man allows his girl to experience the world, knowing that no matter what lies in front of her, she can face it head on and remain loyal. He knows that he has taught her well. He knows that his bond with her is strong enough that he has no reason to fear the actions of others. This is called "TRUST" people. This is not only the sign of a true Dominant.. but also the sign of a true submissive. She knows that her commitment is strong and real. She knows that no matter what she faces she will remain loyal to her one. If she can face the world and never waiver.. she knows that she is true to her submission. Real Dominance has no fear... and true submission does not waiver.
Ok... I've rambled enough.
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It still cracks me up that when you reply to, or acknoweldge something someone wrote in their profile or journal, they automactically take it as if you're hitting on them.
It's sad the number of times I have said to someone that I liked or agree with something they wrote in their journal. Only to have them read into that "Hey I want to get to know you and own you".
Why is it that people can't take a compliment. Are people really that jaded that they believe that anyone who simple speaks to them wants to hook up with them. Way too much ego people. Sometimes "hello, how are you" just means... hello, how are you.
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Question!!
Did June Cleaver know how to drive an automobile? I mean, does anyone remember her ever leaving that house. Was there ever any reference or mention of her ever driving anywhere? Was there ever any reference to, and if she ever went to the market or shopping center? (No Malls back then). Now I know this is not important to the fabric of life... And I am far from a "Leave it to Beaver" expert. But it just hit me! |
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If we're lucky, one day we will be among the old.... (OK, in my case, the really, really older), But with really nothing to do and nowhere to go... we will sit in our wheelchairs daily and recap our lives.
The question is, will you be that old bitter person who is pissed because you lived a life that's really not worth recapping. Or, will you be the one who sits there with a constant smile on your face? |
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Ok.. here we go again. I need help!
I don't understand this whole "Under Consideration" thing. (Now I know what it is people.. I'm not "that" stupid people). What I don't understand is the purpose or need for it. In fact it just seems stupid to me. Does every move of a relationship need to ne announced? Do you have to tell the world that you've met someone you like and that you "might" end up in a relationship with them.
I believe the main purpose for this is "STUPID MALE EGO" it's usually the idea of some so-called "Domly" who tells the subbie to post it on her profile. Announce to the world that you're talking to me.
Show the world that they are actually talking to someone and that she wants to be with them. Announce to everyone what a big man they are....lol!
The "Under consideration" tag usually follows "not allowed to talk to other Doms" .... So maybe it's fear. Are these men that insecure that they don't want other talking to a little girl they don't don't even own. Are they so afraid that another man will take her away from him.
Now keep in mind that I'm just a "Fake, Wannabe" myself ... So it's not like I know what the hell I'm talking about. But, the entire "Under Consideration" thing just seems like more fantasy, (read it in a book or online somewhere) ego, macho crap to me.
So am I missing something here people?
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Ok people... once again there's something I don't understand.
I don't get this thing where women seem to brag and/or take pride in being "A Bitch"! I can't help but laugh when I hear phrases like "I'm the best bitch you'll ever see" or "Oh yes, I can be a bitch... and I know it". It's bad enough when any woman makes this claim. But, when a "submissive" woman makes it.. it's just plan hilarious.
The really funny thing about this is that no one likes a bitch. No one wants to be around them.. not even a bitch wants to be around another bitch. So why this need to be proud of this fact? Haven't you noticed that the women who make these self proclamations always seem to have trouble staying in relationships. Or finding someone to be in a relationship with. They seem to think that all the men they meet either don't understand them or are too weak to handle them. They know that their bitch attitudes run people away.. but in the same breath don't understand why and/or feel that there's something is wrong with anyone who doesn't appreciate them, because they have so much to offer if they just got to know them. (Now who wants to hang around and get to know a bitch).
No.. Im, not saying that anyone should be a doormat. But there is a lot of working room between doormat and bitch to work with.
Truth is people.. being a bitch is nothing to be proud of period.. But if you call yourself submissive it's just down right laughable.
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In life you have two (2) options....
You can fantasize about something worth doing.
.... OR ....
You can do something worth fantasizing about! |
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There are so many "fake" profiles on here that you have to laugh at most of them.
The sad part is that some people actually fall for them and reply to them.....lol! I'm so sure that all these cute, 18 to 25 year old, size 1 little girls are so desperate that they are advertising for someone to play with them.
I mean you can tell that the pics were professionally taken and more than likely downloaded from some teen porn site.
And it seems that most of them are looking for Dommes.....lol!
So it seems that a lot of little teen boys are getting their kicks and have a good laugh.
You gotta love it.....lol! |
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The dictionary defines Submission as ...
The act of yielding to the power, control, or authority of another.
Syn: compliance, acquiescence, surrender.
Now please notice that the word "force" is nowhere in there! |
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I have a very big problem with the over use... (or maybe I should say the under use) .. of the word "Special ".
I thought that "special" meant ... "unique" .. "rare" .. "non-ordinary"?
Has television made us so jaded to the word because it seems that every episode of every show is a "special ... must see ... can't miss" episode.
From reading most people's profiles.... everyone is looking for that "special" person... or that "special" relationship. Then in the very next line they write how frustrated they are with looking for this "special" thing.
Now here's my problem people.... SPECIAL "rare.. unique".
Do people honestly believe that something rare and unique is going to be that easy to find? Doesn't the fact that someone is looking for something "special" imply that the journey if going to be difficult?
So remember what you're looking for here people... you're looking for that "special".. one of a kind person and relationship..... (lets recap "ONE OF A KIND" relationship)... So did you honestly believe this would be that easy to find?
So why are so many people whining and complaining about how they are going to give up because they haven't found that "SPECIAL" person yet! Lets get real people.... (work with me here)
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I received a message from a subbie asking me why so many "Dominants" are so rude, childish and stupid.
The reply is simple...
You're assuming that these "ARE" Dominant males. You assume that just because they put in their profiles that they are Doms. This makes it so. So to assume that someone is, and to treat them as such simply because "they" say that they are Dominant is a very big mistake.
Hell, I can put in my profile that I'm Paris Hilton's brother. That doesn't "make" me a Hilton.
So when someone does something stupid, childish or just plain freaky. Stop believing that this is the action of a "Dominant". It is more the actions of someone stupid and childish. |
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When you think that you have seen it all... someone jumps out to surprise you.
Today I saw a subbie profile that read... "Owned and NOT ALLOWED TO SPEAK TO ANYONE ON THIS SITE" ...
Now keeping in mind that I am not the smartest person on the planet. So someone help me here.... Why does this person even have a profile on this site? |
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Why waste your time putting the line "Not interested in game players" or "No players need reply" in your profiles. Lets be honest... do you actually believe that people are going to see this as a stop sign? Do you honestly believe that players are going to say..'Oh she's not looking for me" and just pass you by? ........... Lets get real... most of these guys see 'Owned subbie" and believe it reads.."Hit on me please"! |
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After a very good talk with a "subbie" I have learned that I am a game playing jerk. (well there were a lot more wonderful names in there also... but didn't want to bore you all...lol) So see you can always learn something about yourself!
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Today I read a profile of a young lady who had two photos of herself on the profile. In both photos, she was bare chested with both tits in full view.
Then in her journal she wrote that she was tired of getting messages with comments about her tits. And that she was much more than just a set of tits.
And of course... you know me.. I had to laugh...lol! I mean if you're going to parade them to the world... how can you possible be upset that people notice them. Why would you put photos of your tits up if you didn't wanted them commented on? Give me a break! And they wonder why no one takes them seriously.
If you don't want to be looked at as a set of tits.. don't make them the main focus of your profile... DUH!
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I just read a profile of a subbie who said that she had been on this site for a week. (That's one week people)
Then she goes on to say thank you to all the guys who have messaged her... But she has found the one she was looking for here and is now collared.
(So lets get it clear.. she's known the guy for maybe a week and now she's collared by him.)
The stupidity never ends......lol! |
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Sometimes I just love this place...lol!
I just read a profile from a woman who said she was a sub and looking for a Dom. Then she follows by saying that she has a mind of her own... that she does not want or need anyone to tell her what to do... That she has no plans to be obedient to anyone other than herself. That she is hard headed and stubborn. And that any man who wants to be with her has to accept her for who she is and let her do what she wants.
OMG... where has she been all of my life......lol! What a subbie! I'm sure the guys are lined up to get a piece of that action.
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If you do the exact same things, don't be surprised that you always get the same results.... .... ....
If you continue to follow the same path, don't be surprised that you always end up in the same place. .... ....
So if you want your life to change.... you're going to have to do something different to make that happen. |
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Ok... I've only been back for one day and all these people who don't know me have all asked the same questions. "Why don't I act like the other Doms" .... You people are so funny. .... What does a Dom act like? Am I supposed to be a jerk....lol! I know who and what I am.. so I don't have to stick my chest out and walk around giving orders like a drill sargent to get my point across. Plus, when did I say I was a Dom.... I'm just your average, everyday control freak.....lol!........... Now for that other question..... Have you talked to most of the people around here?...... If you have.. then you'd know why I don't take this place and these people seriously. |
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OK, I was gone for a few months because all though I find this place very entertaining. I find that most of these people just simply get on my nerves. (How was that for honest).
But I needed some entertainment in my life.... so I came back for the laughter.
For those of you who know me.... cool! But for those of you who don't..... keep in mind that I'm a fake/wannabe... so don't take anything I say seriously. It's just my opinion and that only matters to everyone. LOL! |
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Ok.. once again I need help people. Could someone please explain online D/s to me. Ok, I know what it is... I'm ignorant not stupid people! What I mean is WHY? Now again, I'm not knocking anyone's kink... (Lord knows I have my own) But I'm not getting it... I sit and give order to someone I've never meet over the computer and she "follows" them. And that is supposed to make me feel all tough and Domly. And make her feel all love and protected. So as you can see being the fake wannabe, I'm clueless.... so could someone please explain this to me?
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Somewhere along the way someone decided that "Dominate" meant "A-hole Jerk". Now it's bad enough that a lot of the guys around here believe it....the sad part is that a lot of hopeful "subbies" believe that's what it means also.
And also many hopeful "subbies" believe that "submissive" means "weak, mindless, doormat"!
Now as most of you know... I hate mindless people, period. So doormat subbies are not only a waste... but get on my last F#*ing nerve. But I digress.......The really sad side of this is that in order to show that they are not doormats, many "subbies" have confused being bratty with being strong and intelligent.
Now since I'm just a fake, wannabe... so no one really cares what I think! But since when did that stop me for saying what's on my mind! |
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Still asking the question :
Why is it that whenever a guy says "hi" to a subbie or simply asks how things are going.....
They assume that he is trying to hit on them.....
lol...... So much for just plain ole trying to be friendly.... lol |
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We live in an age of technology... we can send people into space... nuke a meal in less than a minute, and pay $4.00 for a gallon of gas.
So why do people still keep saying that they don't have any pics of themself. I mean it's not like you need a bunch of expensive equipment. Hell you can get a disposable camera.. take a snap of yourself ... and Walmart with put it on a CD for you in less than an hour.
Just something else that confuses me..... people can afford a computer and internet access.. and they have all this time to sit in front of the computer... But not the time or money to take a snap and have it developed?
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Ok.. someone sent me a message saying that I should start me own D/s group. (Ok.. now that shit was funny)
Since I know as little about D/s as anyone around here... Hell, that would be like the stupid leading the blind. So I had to laugh!
But then you know after I thought about it, I figured what the hell.... why not!
So I'm starting one...
Meetings will be every 6th Thursday of each month, at that place over there behind that building, right around from the thing.
Membership dues will be one billion dollars a month, due in cash right before every meeting.
An hour before each meeting there will be two separate munches... one for the Domlies and another for the sublies.
At the Domly meeting we'll sit around and measure penis' ... and have pissing contests.
At the Subbie meeting, they will sit around and brag about the size of their Domly's penis. And also brag about who can take the most pain, and how their Domly broke what over their what!
Then at the actually meeting itself .. we will break into clicks and talk about each other behind the other clicks backs.. (because the people in our click are better than those other people in the group)!
And of course, being the top dog in the group.. I get 1st shot at the newbie subbie.. so I can play them and screw up their minds before sending them off to be used and screwed over by other Domlies in the group.
oh yeah.... There won't be any sexual play parties, except for those sexual play parties that we will have that no one is supposed to know about . We will have them in a secret location that doesn't exist.. because we're not having it. But try to be on time please.
So anyone interested in joining.. let me know.
(And P.S.) The group will break up as soon as someone pays the membership dues.
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I have decided that I'm a lesbian! (Just in case anyone cares! |
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See now I am confused... (Ok.. so that's nothing new)
I'm doing my usual thing, where I read profiles and laugh. And, I see all these subbie profiles that all say the same thing in one form or another... "Looking for that right Dom to come along and MAKE me act right"!...lol!
So there is this idea/belief by some that they are going to just be spoiled, pissy, bratty little bitches, and suddenly some magical, macho domly guy will appear and force them to be good....lol!
Now from what I know.. ( And keep in mind that I'm a fake, wannabe here).. but ...submission isn't forced.. it's given. (1st page of the D/s booklet....chapter 3.... "Submission") No one can force you to do anything... submission is something you give to those you choose to give it too.... not something someone comes along and takes.... D/s is not based on fear or force... it's based on respect and trust. So no amount of punishment, spankings, beating and so on will make anyone act right if they do not choose to do so.
So did Misread the booklet? Could someone explain this "Force me to act right" thing too me.. I'm a little slow.
Lord.. I'm so glad I'm fake .......
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In one of the MANY nasty emails I seem to get...lol! Someone said that since I was a know it all.. (which is very true by the way).. what was my definition of fake?
Hmmmmm!... Hell that's easy!
Any idiot knows that first and last, this lifestyle is based on truth and honesty. That's usually on the 1st page of any book, paper or DVD about D/s. It's D/s 101.
So anyone who lies about anything in D/s is a fake.
If you're married and lie about it, you're fake.
If say you're looking for long term, but actually are just looking to get laid, you're fake.
If you're 5' 5" and you say that you're 5' 6", you're fake.
If that's not you in the picture! If that is a picture of you taken 5 years ago and you lead someone to believe that you "STILL" look that way. You're fake.
And my alltime favorite... If you have no earthly clue how to actually be a "Dom" but you pretend that you do and say that you have all of this wonderful experience... WELL>>>> you get it.
If you can't be true to the lifestyle then you're a fake. No excuses! Doesn't matter which side of the D/s slash you're on.
Well, lets see who I piss off this time.............. |
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Now here's the funny part... since I wrote the post about mouthy subbies... I have had 3 subbies attack me because "they' think i wrote it about them....lol! OMG....lol 3 threats in one day... not bad if i do say so myself.! |
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Lately there has been a raise in the number of "subbies" who believe that since they are "Strong, independent, intelligent, thinking" women... that they can say anything they want, to whomever they want,....... whenever they want. hhhhmmmm!
Now for those of you who know me.. you know that I do not believe that a "subbie" should bow down or submit to every Tom, Dick and wannabe who calls themself a "Domly".... But in an attempt to not be used or treated as doormats.. some of you little girls have taken this totally in the wrong direction.
The idea that you can mouth off at someone until they "earn" your respect doesn't make you an intelligent woman, or an independent woman.. or a strong woman..... what it makes you is a very stupid woman. I have heard too many times.. "Well if they can't handle me, they aren't strong enough" .... please, If you want respect.. you have to give respect. And that is not about being submissive or Dominate.. it is about common sense and being a human being. So if you believe that if somone really wants to be with you, they will put up with your mouth until they earn "YOUR" respect. You're simple... STUPID!
Now I'm not saying that is someone insults you or attacks you to sit by and be a doormat... but to be bratty, sassy or a bitch .. simple because "YOU CAN"... isn't strong... it's childish! Cause if I have to put up with your brattyness and your smart mouth to earn your respect... here's a quote for you "Won't happen"
But the really funny part is... all of these "Subs" have one thing in common. (THEY CAN'T FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL ACCEPT THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE)..... lol! |
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Ok.. MAN I shouldn't say this!.. but here goes!
I get confused with this whole "Master" thing. From what I've read... "Master" was what the slaves called their owner. Not what he called himself! Thomas Jefferson (A noted slave owner)... never introduced himself as 'Master Jefferson". So why does someone themselves "Master"?
My next point is.... is a Master is someone who "owns" slaves...... how can a "Dom' who does not have a slave be a "Master"? What exactly is he master of?
Ok.. so I'm nit picking........ but does that make sense to anyone but me?
So what's my point?..........the next time one of these guys calls you fake!..............hmmmmm! (It's called "AMMO")
lol......
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I would like to dispell a few stupid ideas that some people seem to have.
1st.....Just because someone puts the words "Sir", "Dom" or "Lord" in their name does not make them either. Hell my 8 year old nephew can spell Dom.
Just because you can give orders.. doesn't make you "Dom"! (My nephew can do that also)!
Just because you own a flogger... doesn't make you "Dom".
Just because you're a sadist.. doesn't mean you're "Dom" (one has nothing to do with the other)
Next.... Just because a subbie doesn't bow down to every Tom, Dick and wannabe who says they are "Dom" ..... doesn't make her a fake.
Just because a subbie won't meet some guy she doesn't know for sex or play... doesn't make her a fake.. makes her smart.
Just because a subbie won't send you naked pics of herself or play on cam.. doesn't make her a fake.
Ok.. I could go on.. but you get it.
Oh yeah... but then what do I know!
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It seems my little Gorean comment has pissed a few people off...
How will I ever sleep at night? |
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Why does it seem like I'm always pissing people off. But I have to ask this....
Someone help me out here.. I just don't get this Gorean stuff. Don't get me wrong, I know what it's about and I understand the concept. What I don't understand is how grown ass people can base their lifestyle beliefs on the fictional people on a fictional planet. On something that isn't even close to reality. Are these people the "trekies' of D/s? Why not base it on "Star Wars" and we can all dress up like Luke or Darth Vader and wave those cool flashlights around.
God what has this lifestyle come too. |
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Ok.. someone made a very fair point. It does seem like most of my crap in directed at the sad state of the "Doms" I see around here. As though there is nothing comic about some of these "subbies".
So, as painful as this is going to be....lol! Here I go again... making more friends.
It's so funny to me when I read these profiles and journals. First, it's "Looking for the one "... then a month later it's "I've found the one".. then another month later it's..."I am now the collared slave of LordDufass.. only here to make friends"... then two months later, after they have burned all of their bridges it's... "I am no longer collared..he was not what he pretended to be/not who I thought!".....LOL!
Ok here's the deal......... I don't blame the "Doms"... we all know that there's a lot of fakes and crap out here.. Hell they don't do it on purpose.. they just don't know any better...lol.
So now someone explain to me why... If you say you're searching for the "ONE".. your "Soulmate" .... what the hell is the rush. Did/Do you people actually think that it is/was going to be "EASY" to find that person who completes you? That you'd put up a profile online.. and poof?
It's funny how so many people think of a collar as something diposable. A collar is supposed to be the ultimate committment... So, how can a "Dom" offer it after knowing someone for 2 months and a "subbie" accept it after only 2 months.....lol! Would you marry someone you've known 2 months?
So many of these "subbies' want so bad to belong to someone... and so bad to find that one. That any guy who looks as though he fits the bill is "The One".. or hell.. "close enough to the One".
You get out of something what you put into it! If you jump into something that serious with someone you don't really know... HERE'S THE NEWS...........IT'S YOUR FAULT LITTLE GIRL!!!!
But then what do I know right... I'm just a fake wannabe anyway! |
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Okay, being the fake wannabe that I am, I get confused a lot. So I depend on you "Real" Doms and subs to help me out with the crap I don't understand. So once again, here we are......lol!
Someone please explain this Capitolization crap! Is it really that damned important to these "Doms" that a subbie use Caps in certain situations when typing? I mean is this supposed to be some type of insult if a subbie misses the "Shift" key? Do you really judge a persons submission by the way they type? I'm not getting this "We/we" crap.... I only need one "we".. I get it already.
Oh yeah... I can see me getting pissed if I get a "sir" and not a "Sir".......lol! Hell, must of the time I don't capitolize my own name.
So when did this crap become important? Seems to me these "Doms" are worried more about nit-picky crap than they are about getting to know the person.
Is anyone getting this but me?
I have another big complaint... but it'll really piss a lot of people off.... So i'm debating....lol! You know how shy I am!
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Ok now this had gotten totally out of hand. It use to be funny, but now it's just gotten scary and weird.
What's with all the profiles from these "supposedly" 20 year old hottie subbies who all seem to be newly taken. This is so funny that these profiles with photos that were obviously downloaded from somewhere, of these young hott women who are now taken by all of these "Doms" that have been around here for a while. Suddenly they have just popped up to tell everyone how happy they are with "lord*#^" or "Master#>*^". Oh it's so great that they have finally found that one "Dom" they have been searching so hard for... So now they just have to anounce it to the world.....lol! Everyday a new one pops up... some have photos on them that I have seen elsewhere...lol!
Has it gotten so sad for these guys that they have to make up having a young hot subbie in a weak attempt to try to impress others online.....lol! This is truely sad... these my friends are the "Doms' that you subbies have to chooce from...
Well you guys keep it up.... I just love this fantasy world that ao many of you are living in.....lol!
I would leave.. but this has become my comic relief......lol! |
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My new question for the day is simple...
Why is it that when you say hi to a subbie around here and simple ask how they are doing... they automacticlly assume that you're trying to hit on them and that you're interested in owning them?
I guess a Dom isn't supposed to be nice. .... So much for my mother telling me to be nice and to always speak.
LOL!!!!!!!!!! |
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Ok, now here is why a lot of people don't like me...lol! (Really sound concerned, don't I) But, as usual there's something else I don't understand.
How can a man be "Dom" if he's married and afraid to tell his wife that he is " a Dom". In a lifestyle that is supposed to be based on truth and honesty. How can, and why would a subbie expect someone who can't be honest with his wife (who he made vows to) to be honest with her? Help me out here... How can a man who is afraid of his wife be "Dom"?
And I've heard all of the excuses... from both the married "Doms" and the "subbies" that his wife wouldn't understand, or he didn't come to terms with who he was until after he was married. But from what I understand, 'Doms" don't make excuses!
How can someone control a subbie and direct her life.. then go home and lie to his wife. And how can a subbie expect a man who isn't man enough to be honest and run his own life, to be man enough and honest enough to run her's?
But then, once again I am a fake, wannabe, jerk. |
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Lately I have been getting all of these messages from people who say that I think I'm all high and mighty. And that I'm seem to be a know-it-all, and think that I'm better than everyone else around here... lol! Now that's some funny shit!
I debated (Did you get that... DEBATED!.. Hey, that's a big word for me.) But anyway, I debated for awhile wheather or not I should say something... And of course if you know me... hell I can't keep my mouth shut even if I wanted to.
Lets start from the beginning because I don't want to confuse these very simply minded people...
1st... if you will go back and read over my journal entries... never, not once, have I ever said that what anyone was doing, or not doing was right or wrong. Nor, have I ever offered any better way to do it. All I have done was ask questions as to why. I asked for someone.. hell, anyone to tell me why certain things were being done a certain way. I believe that I admited each time that I DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHY THESE THINGS WERE BEING DONE! And I have admitted over and over again, that I am a fake, wannabe, jerk.... so how in the hell do you read that I am judging anyone....
Ok, lets face it.. some of you people have some serious issues.....lol! |
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Ok..... now once again, I have a question.
Being the fake, wannabe, jerk that I am, I get confussed a lot. And, there's a lot I don't know.
Someone please tell me....
Has the line "On your knees bitch" ever worked?
What do I know.....
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Would someone please explain to me why one of the 1st things some of these Domly guys do right after "finding a subbie" is send them online to find another subbie for him?
So when did "Doms" start needing a pimp? Why can't he find his own women... if he wants another for whatever reason.. why does he have to send his "subbie" to do it?
Maybe it's me... being the fake wannabe, jerk that I am...Maybe that's why I don't get it... so would someone please explain that to poor lil ole wannabe me!
Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Now someone I've never met.. have no idea who they are... only talk to for less than 30 seconds.. and said less than 10 words too.....told me that I was a jerk.
Hmmmmmmm! Now I'm wondering if that should bother me.... but even more so, I wondered how someone can possibly make that call after less than 30 seconds?
So I thought I'd let everyone know that not only am I a wannabe... I'm also a jerk.
Pass it on!
Gotta keep you guys and gal posted on my progess.....lol! |
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Ok.. so now another very wonderful point has been called to my attention that made me think.
Why are there so many subbies here who are not allowed to talk to other Doms? This is a site for people looking to meet and conect if I'm not mistaking.. so why is someone here who is already taken? Why would you have a profile here if you're "NOT" looking... Seems stupid to me. Didn't think this was a site for subbies who wanted to "talk" with other subbies....hmmm! It's like going to an orgy .. then getting offended when someone asks you for sex...! Just a thought.. but then as usual... I'm a wannabe, so what do I know anyway right? |
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Well here I am again..once again amazed by something so simple. (But then again, I guess I'm not the smartest wannabe in the roost) But I don't understand why a subbie who is under consideration by a "DOM" is not allowed to "talk" to others? Someone please tell me why that is? Is it because the "Dom" is afraid that some other "Dom" will take her away... (Doesn't sound like the guys too confident in himself) Or is it because he is afraid that since he really doesn't know what he's doing.. by talking to other she'll find this out?...hmmmm! Well whatever the reason, it doesn't make any sense to me.
I feel that any subbie of mine can talk to anyone she chooses as long as that person is respectful to the both of us... (But then again.. I am fake right?) |
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Ok.. I guess I haven't made this clear enough before because I keep running into this..! No! I do not care to meet anyone who just wants me to play them! No! I am not interested in seeing you play on cam (not alone or with someone else). No! I am not interested in phone sex!
I'm only interested in ownership. So if you're not interested in a long term relationship and being owned. We can chat and be friends.. but that's it. So lets not waste each others time here, ok! |
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I think it's sad that there are so many who claim to be Dom's and subs... but so few who truely are. So few who actually understand what this is really about.. and even fewer who are honestly willing to live to the code of truth and honesty!
So sad......
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