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	Im happily married... its true! At this time, Im not seeking anything or anyone- except friends. Im always open for friendship. Things I like a little pain, gags, blindfolds, bondage (not necessarily the kind that takes an hour to set up... more of a gitr done girl), hypnosis! Things I LOVE the smell of leather!!! hypnosis! (I realize thats listed twice) TOTAL DEAL-BREAKER Dishonesty, lack of honesty, lack of the whole truth, lies by omission... get the hint??? Something to know about me... Im originally from the Boston area... and my heart will always Love That Dirty Water!

Well, it is nearing the end of 2022 and since we are very limited to update profiles on the site… I figured I would get an update here.

Well, it is nearing the end of 2022 and since we are very limited to update profiles on the site… I figured I would give an update here.

I am 44 years old, still living in the Fort Lauderdale Florida area, and I have an open marriage.

Have an open marriage.

It is not so easy to correspond care, feel free to find me with the same name on fet.
i've been involved in the lifestyle since about 2000 and I am only looking for real connections.

if you just want to chat and are too far away to meet. Please look for someone that is interested in the same things as you. That will not be me.

I still love to serve, love the smell of leather, and love hypnosis. Most other things are negotiable.

Thanks for reading.

thanks for reading.

Becca

Be True to yourself, no matter who you meet.

Put yourself first, if you don't, who will?!?

That might sound funny coming from a submissive.

Who puts who first? The dominant? The submissive?

If I don't put myself first, what am I to him?

Thinking I'm putting him first, really means I'm putting myself first.

I challenge you to understand that.

We've been in Florida for a year and a half now... wow, couldn't be happier! It's crazy to me that the "winter" actually is mostly too cool to swim (even in a heated pool)- weird! We've met a few people here locally and have been to a few parties. Always looking for new friends.

We've been in Ft Lauderdale since the beginning of July and we're so happy here! We're really loving Florida!!!

Anyway, as I said, we LOVE it here! loving Florida! We haven't explored the "scene" activity here yet, we'd been too busy house-hunting, purchasing, and now fixing up our cute little Floridian house!

The day I finally got a FL license plate was the day I really felt like I'd been bent over and f*%#&@ by the state of Florida- $550 to register my truck- what the heck?!?

Alright, I guess it's time to add some new things here. I haven't been sick for a while- just busy as heck! I FINALLY was offered a position within my company- IN FLORIDA!!!! So, we're finally moving. I hope we like it! Finishing packing up all of our belongings here and then moving at the end of June/ beginning of July. We're planning to split the 24 hour drive into 4 days of driving. Hopefully a little sight-seeing along the way. See you in FLORIDA!!!

Wow,

It's been a long time since I've written... I got a miserable virus in the summer that just wouldn't leave... finally got rid of it- nothing serious just damned annoying and couldn't kick it! Now I have a stupid cold- there's always something. Hoping this cold won't last long... leaving in 21 days for Florida, then a cruise, then house-hunting in Florida... warm weather- here we come!!! Happy holidays to all!

It's been a while...
We bought kayaks- photo coming up soon! We've had a great time- looking for more river trips... but not finding much up this way. The ocean is a little scary for us right now... kinda afraid of waves and currents- lakes are pretty good!

Work has been GREAT- got a new boss!!! It's making life easier, all around.

That's it for now,
~Bec

Wow, my IRS Stimulus check arrived via direct deposit this morning- yay!!!

I'll stimulate the economy- infact, I already did... I went shopping!!! I bought 5 pairs of shoes and a pocketbook and wallet : ) The best part is... I saved TONS of money... EVERYTHING WAS ON SALE. I got some nice dress shoes as well as some fetishy looking shoes!!! When I got home, I just HAD to try them on with my leather cuffs. Then Richard decided he'd add a pad lock to my wrist cuffs... do you KNOW how hard it is to type with wrist cuffs attached??? HARD!!!

I think I'll keep this short and sweet- g'nite all!

Happy 30th birthday to me-
I spent the day with a fever-
Happy 30th birthday to me-
I've still never had a hangover!
::grin::

I was bummed, had to cancel lunch with friends :( We'll reschedule though. I bought a new Blue Tooth headset though & it can be made all girlie. Has a clear cover on the front that you can put these little design plates in. Richard TOTALLY made fun of me- but I don't care, I like it!

He gave me my birthday spankings last night- even with a slight fever... I could have chosen to get them on another day but with 10 penalty spanks- How unfair. No way was I getting extra- I *suffered* through them. No, really only the last 3 were really hard.

My birthday ended in a romantic one-year anniversary celebration as well : )

No work today, but back to work tomorrow. Will have a nice girls' day today!

Yesterday, I checked on my parents house, they're away, and found 2 mouse traps with dead mice in the cellar... can you say, "BLECH"?!?! I did. The first one just grossed me out, and the second one scared the begeezus out of me! I called them to check and see if they had any more traps set that I should check on, thankfully, NO! I asked if I should buy more and set them, my dad said, "nah, you can just take the mice out and reset the same traps"... "I don't think so", I said, "I'll buy new ones, you're lucky I'm even getting rid of these!" Oh, how I hate little animals! I'm such a good daughter *smiles sweetly*

Today I'm doing some body work on my older of two cars. It needs it badly after the winter and I love being able to look at it after it's fixed and say, "not bad for a girl!"

We're planning on making some special time for us today- spent so many months with him in bad health that obviously that was top priority. However, things start to slip when you don't take the time to keep them where you want them. Now that he's stable, we can afford to take that time. We're both relieved that D/s isn't gone forever. I don't know that I would have ever believed I could live life without it. I've come to find out, I can live life without, but without D/s, life just moves- it doesn't stay *alive*.

Well, it's been a busy day for a Saturday. I was out with my mom this morning, then Richard and I visited with my grandparents, then I graciously told him I didn't mind if he went home while I stayed to help Nanna with some housework. He was glad for the "easy out" and guiltless exit.

Grocery shopping was next and all the cold stuff is put away, but MAN- did I need to sit and rest. Today was tiring. I'm finishing the Coors Light I opened last night- it sat in the fridge all night, half empty and open- not so fizzy now- yay, that's how I like it!

Last night was our first time exploring puppy play together. It was very cool and I feel like we both felt very natural during the whole experience. The only thing that was hard for me was after we finished, I kept forgetting that I could actually speak english- LOL- it was kind of funny, I literally would have to think, "oh yeah, I can talk now"! : )

I'm excited that we've begun to explore that. I identify as an older pup/young adult, female Irish Wolfhound- the second tallest dog in the world.

There's always something that gets in the way of me *sticking to something*. I was getting pretty good about writing something here at least every couple of days- till I helped at my grandparents'. I guess I was a lot more tired from that than I expected. I slept a lot the WHOLE week after- LOL!

Richard and I have been beginning to explore puppy play... it was something on our list years ago that we just never got to.

So far, we've got the breed picked out, name, age, some of the commands, and *her* characteristics. I got to make suggestions for all of the above- but he made all the choices, from my suggestions. As far as the name and breed- he chose my second choices on both. Now, was that because he *wanted* those or because he *wanted* to be sure he didn't pick my top choice? Gain a little extra control by being sure not to go with my favorite? I don't think I'll ever know.

This weekend we might try out some puppy play. We've both done it in the past but not with each other. Me- the pup, He- the owner! I wonder how it'll be?!- all owners treat their pets differently- we'll see!

I'm home!!! It's good to be home! It was good to help out too- kind of warmed my heart being able to do something of value.

I'm sending out many prayers, thoughts, and wishes right now; to friends and family for illnesses, upcoming surgeries, treatments, job searches, and recoveries. Wow- it really does seem like the stars are misaligned, or something.

On a good note, the spankings and belt were *pretty* good this week! ::grins::

My grandfather just got home from a month in the hospital- they're needing some extra help at home. I'll be there the next few days at least... I'm looking for a laptop to borrow because I'll be BORED at night without the internet. If I'm able to get one, then I'll be around, if not, see you in a few days!

Went to bed early last night, was asleep BY 7:00- WOW!!! I guess I needed it, felt better today : )

Doing some family stuff this weekend and making dinner with a girl from work tomorrow night... dinner, a movie, and wine (or coconut rum), what more can 2 girls ask for? No we're not bi, lol : ) Although we'd both said before, if we did go the lesbian route, it'd be for each other ::grin:: She's moving back to CA in May, we spend 35 hrs together each week, I need to make up for all the time I'll be losing when she moves- I'm gonna miss her like crazy- what a GREAT coworker-she's made the last 6 months sane!

Daydreams- thinking about the days when I was a "puppy", eating and drinking on the floor from puppy bowls, barking to talk, and crawling around with my tail "wagging" ... good times ::smile::

Happy St. Paddy's Day!!! Made 2 Corned Beefs today... one had nasty spices in it and one was a little too tough- sheesh, 0 for 2.

The cabbage, carrots, and potatoes were good though and I skipped the beer!

My back is bugging me so I took a hot shower, was too long, I used up the hot water, was still warm by the end, but not hot. Now, to blowdry or not? That's the question. I'm wondering if even holding the hair dryer up over my head will bother my back? Hmmm? Dunno, maybe I'll try it anyway.

Will be watching Monday Night Raw tonight- will be good, John Cena and Randy Orton tag teaming against the rest of the entire Raw Roster- Yikes, that Triple H is cruel- he made up that match! Go HHH!

I get to go into work an hour late tomorrow morning, that'll be nice! I won't have to leave until 7:) G'nite

Went to the Fetish Masquerade tonight. The theme was Country Western! I wore my western shirt with the fringes : ), my new Trace hat, jeans, and my boots : ) I waited soooo long to get GOOD cowboy boots. Had them for 2 years now, maybe. Country music was on all night, was surprised but glad. I did some Karaoke. I sang "As Good As I Once Was" by Toby Keith and "Redneck Woman" but Gretchen Wilson. I had fun singing both of them. In the Toby Keith song, there was a line about "when I was a young man" that got MANY AND LOUD laughs from the crowd and a strange look from my dominant : X "Redneck Woman" was fun to sing and my back up dancers were AWESOME!!! Hell Yeah!!! Good Times, Good times!

Wow, what a LONG week it's been!!! TGIF!!! Work's been rough, my back's still bugging me (though better than last week), Daylight Savings dragged me down more than I ever remember it in the past (or maybe a combo of all 3 above gripes), it's been a terrible week for eating out- and I'd been so good- totally do NOT want to face the scale tomorrow- but maybe a little accountability will be good for me.

Tomorrow night's the Fetish Masquerade of Ds-NewHampshire. Western Theme- yay- can't wait to wear my "sh*t kickers" and my new(ish) hat. I just bought it in the fall, but haven't really had the chance to wear it yet... I knew when I saw it I liked it, bought it, had it shaped especially for me, and then got home and saw that it's a Trace Adkin's design- I always knew I had good taste, but a taste of Trace (wow, that didn't sound good, did it? Or maybe it did!)

Staying home watching WWE (wrestling tonight). Friday night SmackDown! I don't think you should make fun of me, sweaty guys with big muscles, hot girls in almost nothing, come on, I'm straight but I'm not blind!

I haven't been so relieved to have a weekend in a long time. Again, TGIF!!!

Okay, so seven hours and half of a muscle relaxer worked fairly well, I was a little groggy when I woke up this morning but not too bad... that will be my plan of attack tonight too, cause my back is KILLING me today... but, lucky me ::screaming with sarcasm:: it was the left side of my back that was hurt last week, now it's the right, great, huh? ::rolls eyes::

~good night!

...so sleepy.

Is 8 hrs enough to sleep off a muscle relaxer? Hmmm... I think 12 hrs would work better for me, but I don't think that would work better for work. We shall see, shan't we?

Slept late today and found out we were supposed to change the clocks- oops, so I slept till noon- big deal it's the weekend.

Got most of my "chores" done: dishes, cleaned out the fridge, more dishes, balance check books, bills, cleaning off my designated chair of junk, mail, magazines, etc. I didn't get laundry or grocery shopping done, but Richard okay'd those changes to our plans... thank goodness!

Bedtime soon, work comes early!

I went to a munch with a submissive friend today. Was nice to get out with other people and of course, it's always nice to hang out with her (she's so friendly and we get along so well).

A word on written language: My dominant requires me to use an uppercase "B" for my name or "I" when referring to myself instead of lowercase letters. He believes that names are pronouns and should be capitalized. Sometimes I get bummed out (so silly) because I'm not allowed to user lowercase like my friends do... but it's his wish and I guess that's more important than my silly jealousy/peer pressure stuff. I know that because I capitalize my name, it doesn't make me any less submissive, but it sometimes feels like I'm not in the same "league" as they are... though I know that's silly, because if I'm honoring my dominant's wishes, then I'm being completely submissive.

Weird, huh? Oh well ; )

... we got all dressed up tonight to head to a munch in NH, come to find out it was cancelled : ( We grabbed a bite to eat and came home. Changed my piercings and just hanging out at home... it's cold and raining out- blech!

Might head to a different munch tomorrow, it's not cancelled, I know that for sure. : )

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