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Whether time-limited or 24/7, submission and domination require guts, start from your deep desire to (be) serve(d) unconditionally and are built up gradually in practice...they are inherent needs that are part of our character, not just checklists of fetishes and kinks.

Explanations:

Regardless of how much it may frighten you, "unconditionally", means that REAL slaves must be ready to get out of their comfort zone. No exceptions

"Serve", means being pleased ONLY when your master is pleased, regardless of your comfort zone limits, your likes and fantasies.

“Sadist, is the person who gets satisfaction by simply applying pain on a human object. When he cums, game is over.

“Masochist”: the exact opposite of “sadist”.

“Master”, is the person who wants to be served. He uses pain (often CRUEL) to train the slave, to make it meet His needs and take it outside its comfort zone to VERIFY its submission and dedication. The better the slave reacts to all this, the more He is satisfied!

“slave”, is the human object which needs to serve. It accepts pain (often CRUEL) for training, to meet the needs of its master and prove its submission and dedication. The better it meets these aims the more it is satisfied.

"Cruel", does not refer only to pain. What is "cruel" (or not) depends on the slaves’ experience.

“Limits” - This term needs more detailed analysis:
Slaves have two kind of limits: The comfort zone limit and the crashing point. Crashing point is the limit outside of which the slave, unintentionally, loses self-control. Panic crisis, violent or aggressive behavior against the master are some of the symptoms. Comfort and crashing limits although expandable, are different for each slave. Even hardcore slaves have a crashing point. Exceeding crashing point is incompatible with the enslavement concept.
It happens, that a slave suddenly stops a session claiming disrespect of its crashing point. Bullshit! it’s just not willing to truly surrender its control and therefore its not a real slave! REAL slaves TRUST their master BLINDLY and keep themselves outside their comfort zone any way and for as long as He wants. They do not complain. They constantly try to cope with all discomfort factors like fear, pain, fatigue, etc. They don’t have “crashing” in their mind. They just serve acknowledging the fact they have no other option. Normally, crashing happens accidentally and unwillingly from both sides (No one is perfect). Last but not least, no matter how disappointing a crashing situation might be for the slave, it will not quit or judge the Master or make Him feel uncomfortable afterwards. It will STILL acknowledge His superiority and keep its submissiveness, hoping the Master took His lesson! Because as said, also domination needs guts; you must know when to stop.

“Trust”, is what keeps both parts together. Trust development starts from the slave. It takes the FIRST risk. Then, the master proves it was a worth taking decision AND asks for MORE. The slave MUST take the risk again and the master will, AGAIN, prove he is not a psycho... and so on! Depending on its experience, each slave takes a different kind of initial risk, but this is an inevitable and indispensable action to start a REAL enslavement experience.