Im only looking for people who I can actually meet. I want the real feel of skin beneath my hands.
Im searching for my mate --that perfect partner, someone I can be in a lifetime relationship with.
So yes, Im real, and willing to meet.
NO ONE over 55, please. I want a mate and partner. That means someone close to my age.
While females are lovely, at this time,Im only looking for men.
What Im looking for
Im both a primal, and a switch.
as a bottom Im more into sensual domination and sensation play. I love being petted, and having a little gentle biting, light nails. I am also a big fan of low intensity electroplay. Fire is fantastic , and I also like rope. I despise being hit on the ass with anything, but the back and breast are ok. But --I am not into pain.
as a top I tend to be a sensual top with a sadistic side. I love playing with sensations. My biggest pet peeve is being called maam by a sub. I much prefer to be addressed as miss, until I give permission to be addressed otherwise.
skills
rope- I know a few basic things , and im trying to learn more.
Fire -- MMM Fire!! I top and bottom for fire. I am very experienced topping with fire. Ive trained several others.
Electric -- Ive been called a sadist with my violet wand. Heh. But Ive also used it to seduce.. I love electric. It makes me giggle.
Hypnosis Ive put people under with success, and have taken a few workshops. I love leaving sexy post hypnotic suggestions I can torture my submissives with when we arent together. )
As for other skills - I attend various classes and workshops when I can. Im always trying new things, just to see if I like it )
Primal
For myself, I indentify with the strong need to be petted, and for skin to skin contact. I am also very tactile. I love to touch. I need any potential partner to at least somewhat get that primal part of me. Ideally, the perfect mate would have a bit of primal himself.
relationships I choose to reserve sex for those that Im involved with in a relationship because having a genuine connection is very important to me.
Please don't bother to talk to me if you're bat shit crazy, a non functional alcoholic, or too uneducated to put together a readable sentence.
anyone emailing me vulgar suggestions will be ignored and blocked.
You will be respectful or I won't talk to you. Don't be an asshole.