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i have made some great friends in the area, and i look forward to making more friends, in the area and the lifestyle. i am currently enjoying a wonderful relationship with my Partner, SongSmith. So any play outside of Our relationship, will be something We choose together. i do NOT play without Him, or without speaking with Him first.
i removed my collar late 2010, after 3.5 years with my first Master, who gave me an awesome foundation for my journey, Thank You Sir. Life has changed for me the past few years, allowing me to heal and grow, for those who have helped and stood by me, thank you All.
i am sexually submissive to Males i trust, switch with the ladies ONLY, there is so much more i want to learn and experience. i have been developing new friendships and nurturing a new relationship. i look forward to learning more about myself and the community, making friends and enjoying life.
A little about me, i am 48, separated (husband not in NC), a Larger BBW, strawberry blond, hazel eyes, Scorpio, former Marine, southern belle. i love to laugh, enjoy life, movies, music, good friends, a good book, good food, and a beautiful sunset or sunrise. i have a huge appetite for learning and living. i want to have Fun... it is what makes life worth living.
i am a live-in caregiver, so do not have a lot of free time, especially during the week to get out, but i am sometimes available on weekends for fun. Please keep that in mind. i can, occasionally, get away for an hour to meet for a cup of coffee and conversation, nothing else. i do try, when i can, to attend local munches and usually have to leave early. But i am available to talk pretty much anytime. Please understand i hide Nothing from my Partner, He will know about my conversations, so if you expect me to hide things, don't bother.
i am very sensual, sexual, and comfortable with myself. Am not into pain (well maybe a little bit) or maso at all. i am finding i can handle a bit more than i thought, but not by much.
i am looking to speaking, and possibly meeting, with you, especially you ladies.
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If You can't be bothered to fill out Your profile, why should a sub bother to contact You. There is nothing to catch our interests. If You can't bother with speaking about Yourself, don't bother to contact me
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A good Friend recently wrote a poem about my journey in healing from years of abuse. i healed with the help of some very special friends and family. It just made me smile to know, that i am back, my heart and soul, while they ache at times, i am Back... smiles.
Dragon Lady
picking herself up from the dusty ground
slowly cleaned herself and grinned
eyes narrowed and sparkled in a feline way
in the way off a natural predator
tilting her head back
she unfolded her arms
like a mighty dragon unfurling its wings
she screamed in the way that dragons roar
'' you do not own me
I am not your slave
treat me with the respect
that you might require
DO NOT FUCK WITH ME
the BITCH within is back ''
J.M.E.
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No insult intended to anyone.. but No one Under 36 or over 60 Please. It is my personal preference. friends first, i need to establish trust before i play, i will not play with you first time, i will not obey you immediately.
i am NOT Yours, i don't answer to You, when it is right and during play sessions, You have that right. and when the right One comes along... then i will belong. Until that time i am a woman, seeking friends and possibilities. i deserve and demand the same respect You do.
if You can not show respect, You don't deserve it. Trust must be gained and earned, by all parties. Don't insult me, don't demand.. i will not accept that from anyone. I will not send You naked pics, forget it. Get to know me, then we shall see what evolves. |
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First if you are under 36 or over 63, DONT bother. IF you are married, unless Your partner is involved or gives an okay to me, NOT interested. i do NOT plan to cam with you and i am NOT interested in Long Distance Relationship.
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Sis, DJ, thank you both for a fun week. you are both so special to me...
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Master, i want to thank You for 3 very special years, i was so glad to have You here for a visit. You are so special to me, and i am honored to be Yours.
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Master, i just want to say thank You, for always caring about me. thank You for allowing me to spend time with one close to me, it means so much that You care for me so. it is an honor Master, to belong to You.
to the one close to me, Sir, my thanks, the chemistry is in a delight. i look forward to more of those delights.
to my "family", thank You so for loving me and for being there for me. and to Master, for giving me such a loving family of the heart. |
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READ profile Before You contact me please. also CM chat does NOT work on my PC |
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Master, thank You, so much. to my "family" huggs and kisses always. with Master's approval, i have met someone close to me. With our first meeting the chemistry was for me excellent, i hope You feel the same Sir. i look forward to getting to know You better in the coming weeks and look forward to Your return.
ladies, i am always looking for female friends, it is so nice to be able to get another female sub or slaves feelings on the things we deal with in life and the lifestyle.
take care all, Amber |
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huggs Master. i have been thinking about this for awhile now. i am submissive to men in the bedroom, i switch with the ladies, the only Man i have ever been submissive to outside the bedroom, or have any desire to be fully submissive to is my Master.
He is the only Man i have ever trusted that much, and the only one that i have met to date, that inspires that desire or level of submission in me. I have no desire to change my status or my collar.
just something i felt needed to be said. thanks
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Huggs to Master, and thank You for two wonderful years as Yours Master. I look forward to the future as Your slave Master.
to my sisters, huggs and kisses. to the new friends i have made online, thank You. it is great that i have had such an outpouring of welcome to the area, so thank You.
I am settling into the job, i really care for my charge, she is a wonderful lady, andwe enjoy each others company. the countryside is beautiful, and the sunsets from my windows and the deck are spectacular, not SoCal, Master, but not bad either. and each one i watch makes me think of You Master, huggs.
to new friends, look forward to talking more. to those who hold my heart, my love to You. |
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Master huggs and kisses. to my sisters, love you both. I am getting settled in and really like my job, and it is beautiful here, but it is not socal, sighs.
still hoping to make some new friends here, but guess it will take some time.
going to go for now, write later
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Well much as i love socal, the economy is not the best, so i am moving back to north carolina, have not been home in many years. i am looking forward to being back, i will miss Master and my sister, but i will be with them in spirit.
Master, i hope that You know how much You mean to me, i want to thank You for everything.
karen, thank you, huggs and remember, i will be with you in my thoughts, enjoy san diego, honey.
"Loving" thank you for being you, huggs, you are in my thoughts always.
I am as close as a phone call, and Y/you are all in my heart, always. with love and heart felt thanks to my family.
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folks, i am still looking for new friends, have been here 10 months, and still want to make more friends in the community, someone, please say hello. if you are from another country, please i am staying put. but would love to meet some more of the kinky people in ca.
huggs to sis, both of you and to Master as always
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hello all, i recently had a great weekend with Master and a new sister, it was totally awesome, W/we went to vegas and had a blast. I got to enjoy a few things i had not tried before, and sis you were great. Master as always You are the best.
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Hello all, have been in San Diego for 6 months now, and have been rather disappointed to be honest. are there no friendly people in socal, almost everyone i have tried to contact can not even be bothered to reply, even to say no thank you.
i was told what a wonderful place this is, but i have yet to see or meet anyone other than Master who is interested in saying hi, much less friendship or play.
i hope to meet someone soon, i have to say am discouraged so far.
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well hello all. the move to southern California is to be made before the end of May. Master, i do so look forward to being there and spending "quality time" with You. i also look forward to making some new friends and enjoying life to it's fullest.
Thank You Master for Your patience and Your support, it means the world to me. i can't wait to be closer and to be with You more. to all, enjoy life to it's fullest, it is worth it.
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it has been awhile since i had anything new to talk about. but having recently accepted a real life collar from My Master, i am content to see friends only online, please gentlemen. ladies, if you wish to play, i am switch at Master's request. if you wish to play contact me and i will ask him if i may play.
am in the process of moving cross country so may not be online much for the next few weeks. say hello if you wish and will get back to you when i can.
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i belive i know what i want and i am going to go for it. i am no longer available, i would enjoy meeting friends Only. If you are seeking a sub, then dont contact me. If you just want to talk then fine.
But i am out of the game, please respect that. i wish you all the best. i hope that my friends will continue to be friends.
the best too You all. |
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i want someone who wants me, who will allow me to stand at their side in life in front of the world, but will Master me in the bedroom, with out malice, cruelty, or extreme pain. someone who does not mind that i am a wench and slut at heart and in the bedroom, but a Lady in life, someone who can "Master" this defiant wench without breaking my spirit, because without it i do not exist. without that spirit and fire, the submissive does not exist because only the fire allows me to be strong enough to give of my heart and soul so totally to the one i choose to trust |
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to the one that i owe my heart to, for bringing it back to life, you will forever hold a part of my heart and soul Sir, no matter what the future holds, you are so special to me, You are the reason i can be myself again.
hello all, life changes, you get sick and things changes, you lose a job and things change, a marriage goes sour things change, a child leaves home, everything changes.
you fear change but it is exhilerating, you fear love, but crave it. you fear your own desires and needs. the one thing you want you can not have, so you search for what will make you happy and complete if that one dream or wish is not possible.
and yet it is so hard to be sure what is going to make you happy, you spend a life time being unwanted and suddenly someone wants you and it feels like a dream and you fear it wont come true . like so many others. But it is time to step forward and try, and pray that you make the right choices. and that you hurt no one on the way. you pray that the choice you will make will be the one that is right for you and all others involved.
you hope that by following your heart you will find the life you seek. and you cherish the friends and loves you make on the way there.
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a intriguing thought for an wicked mind, never so no, with out negotiation, you may miss out on so much pleasure if you do not try again. Sir, i am glad that you did, and look forward to all possibilities.
to all others, nothing is written in stone, for now, but know that you are not alone in this life or this race to pleasure and fulfillment. i look forward to the pleasures that await me when the choice is made |
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well hello everyone. hope all is well. i will still gladly accept all comments and possibilities sent to me. but i will be honest in saying that i am considering and being considered by someone i have met.
i am not committed at this time, and still open to new options and Always open to new friendships. so please say hello and lets see what happens. hope you enjoy the holidays and wish you all the best. |
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Happy halloween to everyone from DragonLadyAmber aka banshee. to all who read this, never assume that just because one is sub that they do not have the right to choose, or that they will be a slave. and because one chooses to begin speaking with you does not mean that you have the right to make demands or choose their route for them.
i am a submissive in bed, but in life I AM NOT without intelligence and i will exercise that mind with instinct and good grace at all times. unless you presume what is not yours to have. then the dragon comes alive and she will flame and bite if roused the wrong way. i am a passionate and loving woman but do not expect me to just do as you say. respect is earned, obedience comes when i accept your collar, If i do.
best wishes to all for the rest of this year.
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this is Not a game for me, i am looking for 24/7. i want it all, i want the friend, lover and Master. i figured something out today, i am a Lady , and if you want to get to know me and willing to respect me then please say hello. if you wish a child who will obey your every whim with no thoughts or feelings of their own, go AWAY. i am a Lady everywhere, do not think other wise. now what i will be to you in bed, that is for us to discuss later.
submissive ladies i would love to talk to you more, both as a sub to the gents and as a domme. i have no interest in being sadistic or in hurting others. i may be willing to wield a flogger or whip but never in anger or to do harm.
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god how do i say this and it sound correct. I do not want to be an object for anyone. i want to be a partner, and a lover. i want someone who will care for and respect ME, not what they want me to be but me, the wild crazy lady I am. someone who will respect my thoughts and wishes and my need to be a person in my own right.
i want a Master who is strong enough to top me while letting me be me. i do NOT want a sadist or cruel master, if you are into that keep walking. wrong lady here.
i want to be loved and respected. i have worked damn hard to find me again and i am not going to give that up.
i cant it would destroy me. if you still want to talk with me then by all means please do. but understand there are some things i wont do and cant
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 http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0019.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> i am confused and unsure, i want to find my life partner, but i need to be wanted and needed, can You do this for me? please i need to talk to You so badly, please read Your emails and mails and call me please. i want this to work but need Your help. Amber
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no i am almost certain i have met my future life partner. i just hope he will always want me. i do want him. i hope you get this Thumper, i lost you a few minutes ago. cant wait to hear Your Voice. You are welcome to call anytime http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> |
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