submissive *d'un certain age* seeks a dominant male.
i'm not looking for an 'ltr.' nor am i looking for the opportunity become the CollarMe equivalent of Margaret Sullavan in 'Back Street.'
(i should probably explain that reference. Sullavan's character, in the 2nd of 3 adaptations of Edna Ferber's novel, pined and suffered in the background while her beloved spent time with his Official Mate. no thanks! i may be a submissive, but i ain't stupid!)
what i'm looking for is a chance to develop my bottoming skills. file this, um, quest under 'gotta use it while i've still got it to use,' please.
to whom should i turn? a good question, that.
When's the last time somebody mentioned Proust around these parts, rather than (say) John Norman?
"You Spanish have a gift for hospitality when your guests are in chains."
~ Erroll Flynn in THE SEA HAWK (1940)
Different year, same mantra.
The mantra these days:
"When Does The Goddam Sex Begin?"
when i shared that Ruth Etting comment with a friend, he offered a nice little riposte:
"Better Ruth Etting than Gogi Grant."
Today, out of nowhere, a Master from another site wrote me to say that "You are somewhat the 'Ruth Etting' of our generation."
Ruth Etting and BDSM? That's a new one on me. What can one do, in response to such a comment, except shrug and grin and be grateful for the sheer oddness of it?
... (Ruth Etting, for those who don't recognize the name, was the singer with a troubled love life portrayed by Doris Day in "Love Me Or Leave Me.")
The abuse i seek occupies pretty much the same portion of my imagination as the famed creature Big Foot --
i've heard tell of both, but neither phenomenon seems much in evidence.
"Physical beauty is passing. A transitory possession. But beauty of the mind and richness of the spirit and tenderness of the heart -- and I have all of those things! -- aren't taken away, but grow! Increase with the years!"
