I am an independent person. I am a person who holds high values of emotional intelligence for “good purposes”. I have vibrancy, vitality, renewal, connection and playfulness. I start off by saying out loud and very proud I am a strong “submissive male”.My definition of a strong submissive male is one that has strong masculine energy; I am not afraid to be powerful, successful and assertive in a particular group, or in the majority of my normal life. What does being a submissive male mean to me; being submissive doesn't mean I am someone’s door mat, it doesn't mean I am weak. It means I am strong enough to know my own deep desires and have a strong want and desire to devote myself to someone outside of myself, yet comfortable and strong enough within myself to truly let go and hand over control. Being submissive isn't easy and it’s not for the weak. To me my submission is not just the physical things I do to please or my behaviour. To me it’s a personal space; where I am able to enter within myself and with a female dominant. This personal space is how I communicate and share with her. It’s where I able to freely open my mind and body to allow my imagination to express my deepest inner like and dislikes, wishes and erotic desires. My submission brings me meaning, self worth and self esteem, it’s a huge important part of my identity and individuality. I take the idea of wanting to give my submission to someone one day very seriously and I will not give it to just anyone or on a whim. Submission is, in my opinion, about giving someone my trust. It's about not knowing why this person inspires you so, just knowing they do. It's about trusting that person to lead you where you both want to be. Not blindly, but faithfully. It's about exploring that trust with them, learning to have faith in it, and allowing it to be a force in your life.
