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First things first: please note that where this site only allows one to choose from four different roles, I do not believe in the limiting and defining nature of those four choices. I cannot predict what the future holds for me, and as such, do not consider myself strictly a "dominant" nor only a "submissive" and I am not either a switch, as I would not change between the roles with someone.
It keeps coming back to this...
...self awareness, purity of focus and intent, goal directed decision making, the formulation of successful strategies to encourage forward momentum...
While bearing in mind that...
We see others not as they are, but as we are...you cannot see someone for what they truly are, until you see yourself for who you truly are.
Perception is reality, change someones perception and you change their reality.
So what I desire is....
A drama-free relationship with someone who is seeking self-awareness, a challenge to personal boundaries, a depths of emotional and spiritual connection that cannot be found in the daily power struggles that occur in vanilla relationships.
I don't want to "run your life". I want to run my life, and facilitate the enhancement of YOUR running your life.
This is about mutual pleasure, not self-gratification.
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Life is a series of challenges, of forks in the road that lead you to where you need to be. Sometimes, we need diverge from the direct path, because there is a side-road at the end of which is a discovery of self, or an experience that feeds your growth, or a person who touches your life.
I have taken many of those side-roads, and continue to savor and be thankful for all that I have learned and the rich blessings that have been given my by these experiences.
I am an intelligent, articulate, and fun loving woman who is not a barbie doll, a door mat, or a robot. I am very real, with real joys, and real sorrows. I work hard for what is important to me, be that people or things. I strive to take everything that happens to me and those I love, and see it as a lesson, an experience, something to learn from and grow by. I believe that every person I come in contact with has something to offer, even if it is a lesson on what not to do!
I am a dominant female with over 15 years of experience in the lifestyle. I have many and varied interests, both in the lifestyle and outside of it.
VANILLA:
I am involved in living history, am an avid reader, love to cook and garden and spend time with family and friends.
I'm not into the bar scene, and have little desire to change that.
LIFESTYLE:
I have limits and expect you to have some as well. I am experienced both as a Dominant and a submissive/slave. I began my experience in the lifestyle as a slave, and under the mentorship of my Owner, became an experienced Dominant. I understand very well the submissive mindset, and the psychology behind both Dominance and submission.
I have been in this wonderful life for 18+ years as both Dominant and submissive, Owner and owned. I don't believe in defining a person by a limited scope, because with extensive experiences come varying possibilities.
I am so much more than can be expressed in a few boxes of text, and invite you to take the time to get to know the real me.
My Ideal Person: I am not a bitchy, man-hating dominant, and have no desire to engage in public humiliation, degradation or man-bashing. I adore men, especially powerful men who are willing to submit to the gentle touch of a woman. I am not seeking any specific type of person, but a person who has a firm understanding of who they are, what they seek, and who wishes a companion upon the path they are destined to travel.
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