I am a 41 year old submissive with 22 years in the lifestyle I love spanking and discipline and need lots of it okay just to clear things up a bit... First I am a submissive woman not a bitch, or a slave if you want that please move on I am not her... Second I am worth waiting for and getting to know I am not a quick lay and I am not into cyber or phone sex.... Third I love me and I mean all of me and I don't care if you don't your opinion does not bother me because opinions are like assholes everybody has one.... Fourth if you want to matter to me then remember that I am and always be a lady yes a submissive not a doormat I am sure there are some on here that like being them though I am sure I will be adding more later but remember I am me all the time on line or in real have a blessed day.....I do not understand why a Dom feels the need to send me a picture of a cock I have seen one before and do not need to see another one if this lifestyle is all about sex for you please pass me by and have a great day....i am back to say i am no longer in Maryland and I will not give out my location randomly to anyone also if your cock is the only thing you have that is dominante then pass me by I am not insteredted if all you have pictures of is your cock pass me up I am a white woman looking for a white Dom not a black man I am not interested in your black cock or anything else this lifestyle is NOT all about sex for me in fact sex is no more important in B. D S M then it is in any other relationship I love me and I love being me yes I have crohns no you can not catch it but I have days where I get sick and need to rest I can bot be on all the time I need down time I am a babygirl I need a daddy to spoil me and take care of me ...