People ask, What is a Daddy Dom. Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nutures, shapes, and molds his babygirl into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes more in her, than she believes in herself.
His love for his babygirl goes without question. He loves her as much for who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is ...... His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she comes into a room and take great pride in her success's. Afterall, He helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and has greatest power to hurt Him.
This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with Him.
He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.
This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.
A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her, everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
A Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.
I lurk in the shadows....... a hungry beast cloaked in twilight filled with sorrow and rage an animal filled with primal instinct poised to strike . filled with lust, I lay in wait silent ...... my breathing heavy every muscle on fire I wait for her . one brief glimpse is all I need and I will make my move in that moment she will have no chance no clue to what lies ahead she will bow to me and fulfill my infinite passion my desire, my want, my need . oooh there she is she is coming closer I can smell her perfume . I see how she walks slow deliberate steps teasing me hypnotizing me with her movements its time to strike ................ . I leap out from the shadows reaching out grabbing her holding on tight to her as she struggles to get free tearing at her clothes I say to her ................. . . . ! MOM ! ...... can I have another cookie ............lol . Gotcha! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! And just where was your mind at when you were reading this?....... . many times life is not as it seems....... sometimes we need to sit back and really smell the cookies......lol
here is another poem
As the sun gently rises My eyes open
taking in the scene
Looking over that which I call Mine
smiling gently I reach out and storke her hair
like a child wrapped in the soft embrace of slumber she rests
she lays here curled up in my arms
all her cares lost in the land of dreams
We met one day as many do
two lost people searching for what we didnt know
in the shuffle of ether space we found eachother
the chat was crowed and many voices rang out that day
but as the room filled I heard her cry out
as many came and went
I told her come lil one and place yourself here
I will protect you from all those here
she came to me on bended knee and knelt there at my side
I went into my pocket and pulled from it a simple thing
A single pink ribbon
I told her there was no buckle there were no straps
it is simple but is true
I think it's a ribbon that suits you more
I placed it around her neck that night
to protect from any harm
as people came and went that night we never lost a beat
for kneeling gently there was a treasure at my feet
I left that night feeling different
for I had found something rare and unexpected
I spent the next few weeks searching for that one I held so dear
our paths came close but never touched
lost in the ether view
then one night as I came in she was going out
we smiled and laughed and talked that night
and found eachother out
she had searched for me as I searched for her
each missing by a breath
now she lies here safe with me
of that there is NO doubt
