Let me tell you why I’m here
There was a time when I used Collar me for a daily entertainment and socializing outlet. But that has changed now and now I am searching for someone to serve me. But keep in mind that I am really not interested in wasting my time with fantasy seekers, liars and people who don’t have the ability or intention to share a real time relationship on a daily basis. So if you choose to get to know me, be real or don't bother.
After two years on CM, my perspective is that the overwhelming majority of people here are sucked in to an idealistic fantasy about a life they wish they could lead. A life where Dominant's gallantly fight for their honor and upon victory they are cherished and placed upon a pedestal of worship and value………….. I am sorry to inform you, but your vagina is not the prize. I know it's hard to believe, but every woman has one and yours is no more special to me then the next woman's.
While I demand obedience from my partner, I am not a sadist. I don't need to "scene" to affirm that I am in control. I have no interest in tying people up in pretty knots, my idea of shibari is tying my Christmas tree to the bed of my truck. Hell, I have enough trouble lacing up my work boots and my high tops. Flogging you as a means of sensual activity bores me and spending my weekends at the local dungeon seems like a long drive to spend time with less then impressive people who are all dressed in black clothes and black leather, because someone told them that this is the D/s uniform. For the most part, they spend the evening chain smoking and jumping around to sound tracks of nine inch nails. I guess that's fine for people who utilize bdsm for that purpose but that's just not my interest.
As for women who indulge their personality in brattines? It's not a cute quality to be proud of. To me it is simply a statement of poor training, disrespect and a lack of self control.
To those of you who have found bdsm and embraced it as a means to solve your desperation and need for attention, I suggest finding a healthier means to deal with your self-esteem issues. Get back in the gym, take your meds like you’re supposed to or get yourself a therapist. (maybe all three?)
Here is a little bit about me:
I am best described as a Daddy Dominant who guides and trains utilizing traditional M/s protocols. I have lived the D/s lifestyle in real time relationships for 24 years. During that time, I have had several relationships of different D/s structures. What I can share with you is that NONE of my successful relationships have come from an online environment, play parties, munches or local dungeons. If that's what works for you, rock on! I'm not discounting the fact that you may meet the partner of your dreams at one of those events. It just hasn't been the case for me.
The balance of a relationship:
In my relationships, I am the leader, the trainer, the guide, the nurturer, the developer and protector. My partner is obedient and provides me service to the best of her ability. That includes mental, emotional, physical and sexual service. She is valued to the extent of her training, her ability to please me and her ability to serve my needs. She seeks only for me to be happy with her actions, her behaviors and her effort. She ultimately seeks my pleasure as her only regard and her complete reward. She embraces these ideals with obedience and humility. This is the foundation that my relationships are built on.
By now you should realize that BDSM play means little to me. That said, through years of education, practice and experience I have mastered the skills of leadership, training and development as well as complete proficiency with the implements I utilize for training, correction and discipline.
What I value is the Power Exchange and living the ideals of that exchange on a daily basis with my partner. I revel in the accomplishments of my creation. To see my partner reach the very best forms of her being.
My Belief:
I firmly believe that it is a submissive's place to locate the best leader for her life. Once she finds him, it is her responsibility
to do all she can to gain his consideration. A submissive should make this decision carefully. There should be an agreement of the goals and objectives of the relationship and lots of discussion on the expectations of training, service, and what life would be like on an ongoing basis. There should even be discussion about an exit plan, should things not work out as expected. Then and only then should a submissive make the decision to present herself for consideration. It is far to often that I see couples jump in with both feet only to be disappointed with their result. Often times this could have been avoided with better planning, communication and awareness. Sadly, far too many D/s relationships fail.
Are we a match?
So you think you might be right for each other? Then by all means send me an e mail or PM me if I am in one of the chat rooms.
Although I can receive CM mail, for some reason, any mail I send out on the CM system is never received. Because of this, I ask that you contact me at my alternative profile, under the name AlmightyMaster (same name but with one "L"). My mail works just fine on that profile.
Best of luck on your search.
AllmightyMaster
