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'Are Most People Liars and Fakes?'
Curiosity is the cure to confusion.
Jul 9 • Heather Havrilesky
What’s Your Top Priority?
Keep it simple.
Jul 3 • Heather Havrilesky
'I'm a Miserable Fuck-up!'
You're not lazy. You're on strike.
Jun 29 • Heather Havrilesky
'Celebrity Hurts Everyone, Not Just Celebrities'
An interview with "Famesick" author and "Girls" creator Lena Dunham
Jun 24 • Heather Havrilesky
Attuning to Social Cues Can Be Empowering!
How observation, patience, and even *negative* feedback can boost your confidence and soothe your soul.
Jun 19 • Heather Havrilesky
'I'm Hungry but Life Is Giving Me Crumbs!'
Honor your passion without shame and you'll feel much more satisfied.
Jun 16 • Heather Havrilesky
'I Got Dumped And Now I'm Depressed!'
Stay open and watch as your fears reshape themselves into brand new desires.
Jun 10 • Heather Havrilesky
'I'm Exhausted But I'm Afraid to Take a Less Stressful, Lower-Paying Job!'
Before you rush forward, take stock of where you are and where you've been.
Jun 3 • Heather Havrilesky
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Advice and wisdom from Heather Havrilesky, published since 2012 (formerly at The Awl and NY Magazine). Paid subscribers receive 1-2 weekly posts on how to navigate our broken world with compassion, realism, and an open heart.

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