What do your friends think of your partner? Does their opinion of him matter to you?

Several of my friends have asked me why a girl whose parents separated because of infidelity would marry a man who has two divorces chalked up to his infidelity. They are convinced this marriage is a bad idea -- that James can't stay married. I think they should mind their own business. Or get in line behind Greg

I know his first three marriages failed. As I said before, I saw it happen. But I honestly believe this time is different. That I'm different. And while a part of me knows that sounds incredibly self centered, I think it's true. Besides...if you can't be self centered in therapy, where can you be self centered?