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𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐞𝐱𝐱𝐱𝐢𝐚
@MissAlexxxia
Gothic Latina Domina. Hypno & Mindfxck Queen. Kxnky Cosplayer | $50+ to DM. 𝑨𝒏𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝑨𝒍𝒆𝒙𝒙𝒙𝒊𝒂. 🌹🔪
New York, NY
allmylinks.com/missalexxxia
Born November 17
Joined May 2017
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Mar 28, 2019
    Unpopular opinion: not everyone can be a sex worker. Do you have a thick skin? Can you ignore drama? Can you continue to build and improve your brand? Can you handle the likelihood of your family/friends finding out? Can you keep composed and handle criticism? It takes a LOT.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Nov 20, 2019
    Fun fact: jerking to her doesn't make you a fan. Want to be considered a fan? Tip her. Buy a clip. Book a session. Sign up for her OnlyFans. Compliments and your spilled semen aren't support. We achieve and obtain nothing from that. Real fans involve $$$.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Mar 15, 2023
    ✨ If you're reading this, and you're a 18-20 femme that just hopped on here from TikTok, looking to make it rich in findom, stop & read. I hope this gets to you & all like you, because there's a LOT that these findomme Tiktokkers are NOT telling you that you need to know:
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Mar 31, 2025
    Hey younger Dommes? I'm gonna hold your hands when I say this, because I'm no longer of the desire to be nice about it: Some of you need to knock out this purity culture and unjustified disgust bullshit now that you're a professional kink provider or leave the profession
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Sep 22, 2023
    A periodic reminder that there are no "lucky subs." They are subs who saved up. Subs who put in months of hard work. Subs who gave of themselves. Subs who traveled to Us. Subs who followed directions. It's commitment & work, & calling it "luck" diminishes it. You're just lazy.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Nov 11, 2019
    "I can't give you my ID for screening. I don't want to risk anything." 1.) Blackmail is illegal. Those who commit it in the sex trade will be punished even more heavily. 2.) We aren't going to put our careers at risk. 3.) We have more to lose than you. Our lives, for one.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Jun 25, 2020
    If a Dominatrix can wear a latex/medical mask for a 2+ hour medical play session, you can wear a mask for ten minutes in Whole Foods to pick up your Kashi cereal and kombucha, Brenda.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Jan 19, 2024
    Replying to @ask_aubry
    Does she KNOW now she's creating fetish content for "trad guy" or should I tell her?
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Mar 11, 2020
    To this day, after almost three years as a professional Dominatrix and eight years in sex work, of all the sissies I've met/trained, I can remember two that weren't abusive, manipulative, toxic and/or selfish. This niche of kink needs to reevaluate and flush itself clean. ASAP.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Jan 26, 2022
    Servitude to your Domme is not contingent on how horny you are. When She's sick, you serve. When She's in a bad space mentally, you serve. When She's busy with life, you serve. An erection isn't a qualifier to devotion. Your Domme does so much for you. Return that energy.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Sep 26, 2022
    I have some genuine advice for the "seeking a 24/7, D/s dynamic" and "wanting to be a live-in slave" submissives out there. Please read it all: You are pushing for something to start in a single moment that takes **years** of trust, self-sacrifice and hard work to acquire.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    May 22, 2024
    Replying to @IsabellaIsMoody
    Or -- and hear me out -- as grown adults, we shouldn't be living our lives looking for daddy's constant approval. Also people like you who openly add to the stigma around our industry, are actively contributing to the violence we face every day. SW is work. Cry seethe & cope.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Mar 15, 2023
    Replying to @MissAlexxxia
    1.) This is sex work. Men are using your humiliating them, draining them, and teasing them as a means of erotica. Meaning the content you create classifies you as a sex worker. You cannot separate the two. Findom is sex work. Please accept and make your peace with that.
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    @MissAlexxxia
    Dec 30, 2019
    A sub that sends $10 when he can, vs. A sub that chooses to send nothing because he thinks it won't be good enough. Which do you think a Domme would prefer to see?