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when your life becomes autopilot
because noticing the other twenty three hours in your day might be the real practice after all
Dec 8, 2025
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"let me check quickly" in the age of instant answers
the death of not knowing and the moments that slip away from us
Nov 13, 2025
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remember when social media felt social?
how the platforms built for connection became the business of insecurity
Oct 6, 2025
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pls don't act your age
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Sep 17, 2025
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what if the wars we fight begin with the words we speak?
language doesn't just describe our reality; it creates it.
Jul 29, 2025
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always optimizing, never arriving
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are we all just scrolling through life?
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adulting: the worst game ever played
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you don’t need anyone to okay your choices
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finding time for what matters amid constant distraction
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if we still celebrate shakespeare, we can still celebrate what we wrote last year
the archive is alive (and so are the ideas inside)
May 31, 2025
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there’s no ONE way to be a feminist, queer, or a mother (or anything else)
when empowerment turns to judgement: from identity to imprisonment
May 26, 2025
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tap now, think later: life without friction
The Autopilot Economy: How the online world amplifies our impulses and erases the pause between thought and action.
Apr 13, 2025
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always optimizing, never arriving
We track. We optimize. We obsess. And it’s never enough.
Mar 22, 2025
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👻 the digital ghost: why your casual hookup still haunts your feed
the endless cycle of watching the stories of people we no longer know
Mar 11, 2025
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I helped build the digital world. now I’m trying to escape It.
why I’m ‘analoguing’ my life
Feb 23, 2025
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What a 7-day silent meditation retreat is really like
And why I've done them twice a year for 8 years – a guest column
Published on A Day Well Spent by Leyla Kazim
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Feb 16, 2025
excuse me… i’m looking for purpose. do you know where i can find it?
the trap of purpose anxiety: has our obsession gone too far
Jan 31, 2025
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welcome to as slow as possible ♡
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Jan 17, 2025
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is aging gracefully just another way to police our bodies?
navigating society’s expectations and our own mortality
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