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Quitting social media for deep time
Always good to remember that seafloors will become mountains, the iron in your blood will pool into the Earth, aaaand also the sun is gonna die.
23 hrs ago
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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The cult of s*xual empowerment
A conversation with Ellen Huet, author of 'Empire of Orgasm,' about orgasmic meditation, the commercialization of women's liberation, and writing a…
Nov 20, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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The 2025 Desire Survey
Here's how you're feeling about love, sex, and your bodies in the midst of rising cruelty and authoritarianism—as well as recent glimmers of hope.
Nov 13, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Make America Desire Again?
After Tuesday's elections, there's a sense of relief and enthusiasm in the air that feels alive and sexy. But the current state of desire is…
Nov 6, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Book cover reveal!
There she is, 'My Mother's Daughter,' which is now officially available for pre-order.
Oct 30, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Questioning the existence of a 'self' as a memoirist writing about the self
Also: reading about monogamy, men's 'equality crisis,' and an orgasm cult.
Oct 23, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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OK, you wanna talk about married sex?
On liking sex with your husband when he feels least like a husband. Also: households as 'capitalism's pressure cooker.'
Oct 16, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Nothing to say
Except a few thoughts on monogamy, intimacy, and the difference between being wanted and being seen—and the possibility of having both at once.
Oct 2, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Back in my day we just made fan websites
Now you can simulate a phone call with your celebrity crush. A look at how AI bots and voice-cloning technology are remaking fan culture and women's…
Sep 25, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Hey, look at this
Three years of work—of love and obsession—turned into a stack of papers.
Sep 11, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Why do we blame women for bad boyfriends and shitty husbands?
Revisiting the concept of hetero-exceptionalism.
Sep 4, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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Thirsting over 'Daddy Newsom'
From feral comments to AI-generated romance novel covers, Gavin Newsom has unleashed a horny internet monster that is impervious to his shitty politics.
Aug 28, 2025
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Tracy Clark-Flory
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