strip show

So, last night when we were walking thru Kabuki-cho in the evening, some one saw me & my brothers and invited us in English to a strip show. I immediately thought: "no way!"... But since then I've been trying to figure out why even the thought of going to such a show makes me feel empty and somehow a bit dirty. When in a relationship you reach the stage of getting nude in front of a would-be lover (for me, anyway), that creates a certain amount of intimacy: not having any barriers between yourself and your special someone, it's what-you-see-is-what-you-get, but there's also a confidence that what they see won't disappoint them. But seeing someone strip just because money has hanged hands, without any relationship between the stripping person and the viewers, some how that seems obscene.