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Debunking Manosphere Evolutionary Psychology, Part 1: The Myth of Hypergamy
"Dating up" is a male fantasy, not a real-world reality
Dec 22, 2024
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Debunking the Male Loneliness Epidemic
An optimistic look at the contemporary dating climate
Aug 31, 2024
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Science Exposes Society’s Hidden Role in the Orgasm Gap
We need to talk about society's role in the orgasm gap and our sex lives
May 14, 2023
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I Refuse to Optimize My Desire
Aug 2, 2025
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Debunking the Male Loneliness Epidemic
Aug 31, 2024
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The Age Gap Myth Just Exploded
Oct 16, 2025
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ICYMI: The Unspoken Fantasy of Partnered Masturbation
Oct 26, 2025
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Science Exposes Society’s Hidden Role in the Orgasm Gap
May 14, 2023
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The Men Who Choose Get Chosen
Dec 28, 2025
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Bro, Was She Flirting, or Just Ordering Coffee?
Some men see women's interest where none exists
Feb 5
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The Men Who Choose Get Chosen
The courage to date with intention
Dec 28, 2025
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No, Women Didn't Ruin the Workplace
Let's put the gender-differences debate to bed
Nov 10, 2025
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What Happened to the Erotic?
A philosophical essay on the great restructuring of eroticism
Nov 2, 2025
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ICYMI: The Unspoken Fantasy of Partnered Masturbation
A Canadian study of sexual fantasies uncovers some curious findings
Oct 26, 2025
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The Truth About the Male Loneliness Epidemic
How the dating apocalypse exposed female frustration and male misery
Oct 17, 2025
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The Age Gap Myth Just Exploded
Everything you've been told about men, women, and dating preferences is wrong
Oct 16, 2025
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Debunking the Myth That Women Love Tall Men
Let's talk about dating preferences and height, shall we?
Aug 19, 2025
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Where the Hell Did All the Step-Sibling Porn Come From?
How the hell did this trend start?
Aug 18, 2025
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The Science of Sex
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