Lexicon of finning
Lexicon of finning
Finning: the act of engaging in Findom. Sending money to a Findomme.
Finsex: sending to a Domme while interacting in a manner that causes sexual arousal to both parties.
Finfucking: Finsex, but wanton, urgent and passionate. May involve “using” the finsub.
Finflirting: chatting that creates finny feelings in both parties. May involve small sends but not necessarily.
Spendy lube: poppers. A liquid in a small bottle that is sniffed. It suppresses the rational, control part of the brain leaving the base urges unchecked. These can be bought in sex shops or online.
Findate: like a date in real life, but which builds finny feeling and leads to repeated, often escalating, sending. Typically $500-$700.
Finrelationship: when a Domme and a sub create a world together with money as its core. All finrelationships are different. They have their own language, rituals and dynamic. Finrelationships are real relationships. The money literally raises the stakes and intensifies the feelings.
Fingirlfriend: a female partner in a finrelationship.
Findom engagement: two people making a serious commitment to a long-term finrelationship
Findom Fiancée: the Domme in a findom engagement.
Finslut: finsub who whores himself around a number of Dommes. Often driven by a need to be appreciated and to feel finny desire.
Finny: feeling the strong need to send.
Fintimacy: the feeling of closeness between a Domme and a sub when sending.
Finmuse: an inspirational presence in the findom world.
Finjoy: to have fun finning.
FINally: the end of a finrelationship.
Finificant other: an important person to in a finrelationship.
Finfriend: someone to fin with but without there being romance.
Finrape: forcing a sub to do something involving money that he didn’t want to do. Can be within a cnc relationship, but not necessarily.
Finny hole: what a finsub falls into when consumed by irresistible finny feelings.
Finstincts: an instinct for a finny dynamic or situation.
Finteractions: interacting in a finny fashion.
Finspectations: expectations regarding how much finning/week /month / etc.
Fintoxicating: the feeling of a “high” or feeling of intoxication before/during/after finning. Both a Domme/Sub can feel “fintoxicated” by receiving / sending.
Clean finning: finning without being under the influence of alcohol or poppers so that the sends come from pure devotion.
Finteasing: teasing with money, usually modest amounts.
Finner thoughts: inner thoughts about finning.
Being used: when a finsub signals during finsex/finfucking that he wants the Domme push him to send far beyond normal amounts.
Finfluencer: an influential person in the findom world.
Fincome: money derived from findom.
Fincurious: someone who professes to be innocent about findom but curious to find out more.