i think it's time to admit that i basically don't use lj anymore? if i'm logged in to lj, i'm logged in as steve, lbr, and i feel terrible. when i do come here to post i feel like no one else is here to read it anyway, and i've been awful at checking my f-list so much that when i do i feel like an intruder if i comment SO here's how this is going down.
if you want to unfriend this journal, by all means, go ahead. i'm barely using it, i know i've been a shitty friend through it, and i completely 100% understand.
my main place of residence these days is tumblr, and then of course twitter. my tumblr url these days is victorfondue (i will probably go back to tstarked eventually) so you can find me there, if you so wish.
in the meantime i'm tired of feeling like i owe anything to lj so like i said, unfriend away. i'm basically only keeping this in case people make posts that they link me to/want me to see or something, and because it's got something of a sentimental value.
it would be lovely to see some of you around the tumblr parts if you're over there, if not, it's been a pleasure knowing you all, but please consider this journal more or less on indefinite hiatus. <3