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hi, im allie.
i call this space āstoriesā cause iām interested in what happens when we look a layer deeper š¦, ask different questions, and dare to say the thingsā¦
Oct 12, 2022
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3 things that've felt good: stories of inner world shifts
lemme hide nada: iām punting publishing a piece titled, āstuff for women to get over / find a new lens onā that takes on men x porn x addictiveā¦
Jan 10
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what women should get over, part I: a story about men + what they earn.
Itās zero secret that since the 1960ās - the average American womanās lived experience has improved markedly oveā¦
Jan 3
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On why dating is hard(er) on women: a real real truth story.
Mar 15, 2025
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on being a 'no' to the blow job: a slow-to-hold my boundaries story.
Aug 24, 2024
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on bringing back getting hit on: a men's empowerment story.
Oct 19, 2024
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Your friends arenāt your community: a hereās why story.
Mar 22, 2025
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On meeting PolyDude6ā¢: a first (and last) date story.
Nov 23, 2024
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on saying byeeeee to casual sex: a lets try story.
Sep 20, 2025
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on less tech, but more aliveness: a goodbye Instagram story.
There was a collection of āIām breaking apartā moments - but really there was one:
Dec 27, 2025
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reflecting and planning, 2025/26 edition: a look back + fwd story
This is the 3rd year in a row Iāve published a reflections & planning piece; its designed to be a āgift bagā of resources for you.
Dec 20, 2025
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want dating to feel better? Start w YOU.
I was on the phone w a potential matchmaking client recently.
Dec 18, 2025
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GLP1's + the dating ecosystem: a lies we're telling story.
not too long ago, i wrote about dating in the age of injectables.
Dec 13, 2025
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on relating better to yourself [+ what an act of rebellion that is]
our new course is here + its for the brave ones.
Dec 10, 2025
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on the decline of open relating: a fad story.
After dance this week, a guy friend held his hands apart and asked me where I was on the monogamy to polyamory spā¦
Dec 6, 2025
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on de-conditioning physical attraction: a story for men.
This piece is designed to be a conversation; it comes from a place of genuine curiosity.
Nov 29, 2025
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on the relational dangers of the 'injectables' era: a passage way thru story.
Editorās note: this piece uses a lotta male/female/he/him/she/her + it inc normative understandings of gender + gender roles.
Nov 22, 2025
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on death, spirit babies + sex magic: a path to truth story.
One of my current fave phrases is: āeverything is story, and no story is true.ā
Nov 15, 2025
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