
The other day I came across something rather ordinary – a bar of soap. It looked perfectly normal, and judging by the reactions of others around me, it smelled wonderful. People spoke about how pleasant and refreshing the fragrance was. Some even said they loved it.
But the moment I smelled it, I felt sick.
Almost instantly I experienced nausea and a headache. What others found delightful, my body rejected. I had to move it away quickly because the scent was simply too much for me.
That small moment got me thinking.
Isn’t life often like that?
There are things in this world that some people celebrate and enjoy, while others cannot tolerate them at all. One person’s pleasure can be another person’s discomfort. It reminded me of the old saying: “One man’s meat is another man’s poison.”
This simple bar of soap became a quiet lesson.
In our spiritual lives, the same principle often appears. Some people find great joy in the things of God. They find peace in prayer, strength in Scripture, and comfort in gathering with other believers. The presence of God is refreshing to them, like clean air after a storm.
The reality: Not everyone responds the same way.
There are people who feel uneasy around spiritual conversations. The mention of faith, repentance, or holiness may make them uncomfortable. Some may even react negatively to it. What is life-giving to one heart may feel strange, irritating, or even offensive to another.
The Bible speaks about this reality in 1 Corinthians 2:14, where we are told that the natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God because they seem foolish to them. In other words, spiritual things are not always understood or appreciated by everyone.
Just like the fragrance of that soap.
Some people loved it. I could barely stand it.
This lesson also reminds us of something important for our daily walk with God: we should not expect universal approval for the values we live by. If we choose to pursue truth, integrity, humility, and faith, there will be times when others simply do not understand our choices.
They may question why we pray.
They may not see the value in living with conviction.
They may wonder why we refuse certain paths that seem normal to everyone else.
Amidst all this remember our responsibility is not to please everyone.
Our responsibility is to remain faithful.
Just as our senses respond differently to certain scents, hearts respond differently to spiritual truth. Some are drawn to it while others resist it. That is part of the reality of living in a world where people are on different journeys.
So the next time you encounter something small and ordinary, like a bar of soap, remember that even the simplest things can remind us of deeper truths.
Not everyone will like what you like.
Not everyone will understand what you value.
And not everyone will embrace the path you walk with God.
That should never be allowed to discourage you.
Stay faithful, stay grounded in truth, and keep walking in the purpose God has placed before you.
Mervin Fitzgerald Matthew | Steps of Purpose








