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Welcome to I'm Not Gaslighting You!
where a medical sociologist writes about the trials and tribulations of using our healthcare systems while also actually having a body
May 20, 2025
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Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD
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What happened when this professor tried to write a trade book
I think I liked it?
Jan 13
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Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD
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Some things I learned from this great end-of-life thinker and advocate
Adam M. Hayden (1982-2025)
Dec 30, 2025
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What I learned after my mom's 1-day stay in hospice
Alyssa's story
Dec 16, 2025
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Two dead women: A story of lack of medical care?
Or lack of a social web to support medical care?
Dec 2, 2025
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Using a Do Not Resuscitate order in real life
Oct 21, 2025
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Long COVID and Exercise Intolerance
Sep 23, 2025
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What happened when this professor tried to write a trade book
Jan 13
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Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD
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What I learned after my mom's 1-day stay in hospice
Dec 16, 2025
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Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD
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Caregiving looks different if you're Elizabeth Gilbert
And not just because of the addiction
Nov 18, 2025
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What I learned from using a DNR when my husband died
Interview with Ann Marie, Part 2
Nov 4, 2025
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Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD
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Using a Do Not Resuscitate order in real life
Interview with Ann Marie, Part 1
Oct 21, 2025
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The hospice referral in "Dying for Sex"
3rd in a 3-part series
Oct 7, 2025
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