So Sparkly went to that conference

(about “young jewish women in leadership”) yesterday, and I have a quibble.

They gave each of the attendees a little treat bag. Here’s what was in it:

  • Food (a granola bar, some fruit, a bottle of iced tea)
  • Some very nice greeting cards with Inspiring quotes on them
  • Two stickers (“It’s on us” and “Smart women vote”)
  • A package of hair elastics
  • A bottle of (expensive brand name) nail polish
  • A package of “intimate cleansing wipes, for face, body and bikini”
  • A coupon for discounted waxing, eyebrow threading, or laser hair removal

And uh. Supporting businesses in your community is great and all, but assuming that those last few things will be appealing to all young women is not so great? There could be more variety, at least.

A thing that bugs me

in historical fiction, is when the characters have to address some issue that is controversial in their time, but which the author sees as having a clear right side and a wrong side. And the author decides that their main character just has to be On The Right Side Of History.

There are ways to have that and still write a solid story, but unfortunately what often happens is that putting the character on the Right Side comes at the expense of nuance and detail in both the character’s thought process and background, and in the setting’s worldbuilding and/or historical accuracy.

Basically there are two awkward things for authors in this situation:

— A historically accurate character might hold approximately the belief we want them to hold, but might describe it in a way that sounds outdated or disrespectful from our point of view.

— A character with a detailed personality and history could explain how they came to hold the “right” belief, in an emotionally plausible and/or historically accurate way, but then we’d have to think about the fact that they used to not believe it and that would be uncomfortable.

(And also, to even get to the point of considering these questions, the author has to themself have thought about the issue in more complicated terms than “x is wrong,” and they have to do the research to know what people were saying about the issue historically and how that differs from how people think about it now.)

These problems are almost worse when it comes to creating villain characters, but it’s late so I’m going to stop here.

Holidays

The stuff I ordered online arrived this morning! and it’s nice! I got Sparkly some Holiday Things and ey likes them! also we sent off presents to other people.

Tomorrow I need to clean a few things, and I want to put up some decorations, and then I need to Do Some Work. Maybe we can make an arrangement where Sparkly gets to use my computer to play games while I’m cleaning, and then I get it back.

Moments ago

Sparkly: I’m not going to hurt you.

Me: What?

Sparkly: Stand up.

Me: You’re not getting this off to a very good start…

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Ey wanted to act out a description of a fight in the book ey’s reading to figure out how it would work. I proceeded to not play my part very well by first holding my imaginary gun in a way that was too old-fashioned, and then by holding it in a way that was too modern. I knew the book was about World War II, and if only I’d thought about that, I could have guessed… :)

(Nobody was hurt, as promised.)