Addendum:

Spy says:

So I hope your belly dancing went well, and that it made your day a
little brighter, and put a smile on your face.

You forget that so often, and I keep having to remind you.

You should smile more often than you do, 'cause I know you don't do it
enough, and you're damn selfish to keep such a beautiful thing to
yourself.

This was meant in a completely friendly, no-ulterior-motive kind of way. I think we've finally gotten to a healthy place.

And you know what? He's right.