Bookmarking this mostly for my own reference because I don't know that I'll be able to finish reading today, plus some of you might find this interesting, too (and I admit to borrowing the link list from coffeeandink:

-- cereta: On Rape And Men
-- rachelmanija: A Follow-Up Post (also in which it takes one commenter .002 seconds to derail the argument with "but I'm not like that!" The point, it just whizzed over your head)
-- nestra: Another follow-up

It is not lost on me that when there was a sexist turd of a comment left in my last entry, the first three commenters (well, besides me) to say "no, no, no, and here is why you are wrong" were male.

Thanks guys, you really understood cereta's point. It gives me hope.