Babies Everywhere?
So anyone that has seen much of my journal in the last year and a half knows about my sister. She had a beautiful baby (Bailee Elizabeth) whom passed away at just over three months old. It was the single most distressing experience ever.
So my brother has been seeing this girl for about a year and a half. He's 19 (so young) and lives with Veronica (said girl) and her family. Her Mom and Dad are split and he is leaving... And she lives with her siblings, her mom, and Veronicas two kids. Both kids are from her previous relationship. My brother met her when she was 3 months along with the second (the guy split). He fell for her hard and decided that he wanted to be there for her. I have to say, he has taken on a lot. He's working two jobs to get them a vehicle and she works full time too. Needless to say her mom helps a lot with the girls. She has this weird idea that babies don't leave the house, and that irks me beyond belief but who am I...
Well last night I got a call from him. It was the infamous "We're having a baby" call. My stomach hit the ground and my heart flew up to my throat. Not only is he going to be forced to play the Daddy roll "for real" now... but I think it's best to urge them to move in together too. Away from her mom. I know this woman is going to keep the baby from my side of the family because she won't want it out of the house. After losing my niece, we aren't going to go for that. There's no way.
Needless to say I'm absolutely thrilled, don't get me wrong... But my concerns are sitting high above the thrill. God I can't wait though.
So my brother has been seeing this girl for about a year and a half. He's 19 (so young) and lives with Veronica (said girl) and her family. Her Mom and Dad are split and he is leaving... And she lives with her siblings, her mom, and Veronicas two kids. Both kids are from her previous relationship. My brother met her when she was 3 months along with the second (the guy split). He fell for her hard and decided that he wanted to be there for her. I have to say, he has taken on a lot. He's working two jobs to get them a vehicle and she works full time too. Needless to say her mom helps a lot with the girls. She has this weird idea that babies don't leave the house, and that irks me beyond belief but who am I...
Well last night I got a call from him. It was the infamous "We're having a baby" call. My stomach hit the ground and my heart flew up to my throat. Not only is he going to be forced to play the Daddy roll "for real" now... but I think it's best to urge them to move in together too. Away from her mom. I know this woman is going to keep the baby from my side of the family because she won't want it out of the house. After losing my niece, we aren't going to go for that. There's no way.
Needless to say I'm absolutely thrilled, don't get me wrong... But my concerns are sitting high above the thrill. God I can't wait though.