A Substack for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents

A Substack for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents

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Why Praise Never Sticks but Criticism Cuts to the Bone for Scapegoat Survivors
Quite often I hear stories from clients who could ace exams, crush it at work, or be kind to everyone around them, yet still feel like something was…
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
Why Scapegoat Survivors Always Think It’s Their Fault (It’s Not What You Think)
If something goes wrong in your life, at work, in a relationship, even in traffic, do you immediately feel like it must be your fault?
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
Why the Scapegoat Child Could Never Win
The Silent Deal You Made With Yourself
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
The Trap That Made Scapegoats Try Harder yet Lose More
If you grew up feeling like the one who could never do anything right in your family, then this may be an important video to watch.
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
The Real Reasons You Became the Family Scapegoat
Imagine growing up in a world where you felt unfairly blamed for everything.
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
6 Signs You Grew Up as the Scapegoat Child
Did you grow up feeling like you were always about to get in trouble?
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
How Scapegoat Survivors Can Surrender the Wish to Be Someone Else
Are you always trying to improve yourself?
 • Jay Reid, LPCC #4195
A Substack for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
A Substack for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
This substack is for scapegoat survivors of narcissistic parents who want to make sense of what happened to know it was not their fault, gain distance from narcissistic abusers today and defy the narcissist's rules.

A Substack for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents

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