In touch with my Id.

Someone asked me recently if I'm so against disparaging the canon love interests, and am all for strong, awesome women in shows and fics and stuff, then why don't I have more het ships?

It's mostly because my id fantasies about women don't involve men. At all.

When I think about the stuff on tv I'd like to see women do, dating men isn't even in the top ten.

That's why.