Facilitating critical thinking about
sex and relationships

Teaching young people
how to think,
not what to think

Welcome to the Reimagining RSE project

Teachers face unprecedented pressure asΒ Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) is increasingly tasked with addressing the vast array of complex issues like consent, online harms, the impact of social media and pornography, mental health, and the controversies around gender identityβ€”far beyond traditional teaching subjects. Many educators feel unprepared, handed rigid guidelines instead of tools for real conversations.

We are a small team of social sciences researchers at the Universities of Surrey and Bedfordshire with over 20 years of experience in RSE and facilitating challenging discussions. Our work focuses on embracing safe uncertaintyβ€”navigating the grey areas of sex and relationships education. We provide a facilitative approach that empowers educators to foster open, meaningful discussions, building confidence to hold space for complexity without needing all the answers. To find out more about safe uncertainty and its application to RSE, see our quick explainer here:Β 

Our Mission

We aim to co-create practical resources to upskill educators in facilitation, helping them to:

  • move beyond knowledge transfer to focus on facilitating critical thinking and emotional intelligence in the classroom.
  • build confidence in managing sensitive topics and moments of uncertainty with empathy and care.
  • create environments where young people feel safe to explore and question – and indeed, make mistakes and learn – without fear of judgment or punishment.

About us

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Transforming Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) in the Digital Age

Our approach is grounded in the principles of safe uncertainty, ensuring that RSE goes beyond just knowledge transfer to foster critical thinking, reflection, and meaningful discussion. Our short video explores how we can shape more inclusive, reflective and effective RSE, moving beyond traditional models to truly engage young people.

Get Involved

We know what works. We have evidenced our approach and know it has positive outcomes for young people. However, we can’t do this on our own. Yet, it is well documented how little direct training educators get in RSE. This is further complicated by a lack of resource, time and money to dedicate to the pursuit.

This is where you come in…  help us to identify the best way to fully upskill educators to be able to adopt our approach.

Our project thrives on collaboration. We’re inviting educators, researchers, policymakers and other stakeholders to join us in co-creating innovative tools and resources that will work for you. Whether you’re passionate about supporting young people, curious about the concept of safe uncertainty, or eager to help re-imagine- RSE, we’d love for you to be part of this journey.

Latest news

Asking different questions: Safe Uncertainty in practice

Much Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) is still shaped by what we describe as safe certainty: an understandable but limiting impulse to manage young people’s relationships through fixed rules, simplified messages and tightly bounded discussions focused...

Do we need a new law to deal with AI generated sexual images?

Louisa Street, School of Law, Keele University, United Kingdom, louisa.a.street@outlook.com Louisa Street is a youth worker and PhD candidate with over 15 years’ experience working with young people on a range of issues including sex and relationships, drugs and...

Dynamics of sexual consent: Sex, rape and the grey area in-between

This in-depth, thoughtful guest piece by Lena Gunnarsson explores how consent unfolds in the relational, affective and ambiguous terrain of real sexual encounters. Her analysis resonates strongly with the Safe Uncertainty framework, which argues that relationships...

Boys, uncertainty and the online search for answers

Responding to Male Allies UK’s β€œVoice of the Boys” report Recent headlines often tell a simple story about boys: either they are in crisis, or they are the cause of crisis. The recently-released Voice of the Boys report reveals something much more layered: a...

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