Friends only but you don't need to ask to friend me, I love new friends and will usually friend back. I'm not the best at updating my lj but I try to keep up with other people's posts and comment when I can.
I generally like discussion, debate and differing viewpoints. But saying anything sexist, racist, transphobic, homophobic, ableist, &etc will result in me telling to you to stfu and gtfo. Saying you dislike one of my OTPs will get you some serious side-eye. Saying something like, 'Twilight is better than Harry Potter' will result in you being dead to me forever.