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A (Growing) List of Insecurities

10 things I can't believe I'm sharing (omg) and what are some of yours?!

Jan 15 • PJ and Thomas

A Few Fun Things

Like our daughter's 8th birthday, a cheeky mug from a friend, and a trip to the E.R.

Jan 9 • PJ and Thomas

The Lies We Were Taught About Gay Sex Growing Up

Unlearning what movies, porn, church, and apps got wrong about intimacy

Jan 7 • PJ and Thomas

A Few Fun Things

Including how we spent NYE, our interview with a fellow Substacker, and a hot new show on Netflix

Jan 2 • PJ and Thomas

Our final newsletter of the year! Taking a look back, month by month, at the year that was

Dec 31, 2025 • PJ and Thomas

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Video Q&A: What You’ve Always Wanted to Know (But We’ve Never Shared Until Now)

Dec 3, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How Often We're Able to Be Intimate and 20 Other Questions on Life, Sex, and Love

Oct 23, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How We Keep the Spark Alive in Our Marriage

Jul 9, 2024 • PJ and Thomas

How Receiving a Jock Strap in the Mail Spiced Things Up in the Bedroom

Dec 5, 2023 • PJ and Thomas

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