moral dilemma! my sister is here, flat-hunting for this year, and has been to look at a super-cool flat that she really really likes. they haven't said that she can move in yet, so this might not be an issue but the decision sirt of rests with me. see, the cool cool flat that she really really loves, is the flat above mine. now i love my sister, but i've ranted before about how she can stress me out and that less contact is better. so i don't know how i'd deal with her living upstairs. it feels sort of invasive somehow. now she has had the decency to ask me whether i think its ok, which is nice of her, but it doesn't make it any different. it would be almost like living with her which i know is a bad thing. i don't think she'll be able to stop herself coming to visit every time she needs me or is bored, or has one little tiny thing to say. which would drive me nuts. and the thing is if they say she can move in, then the entire decision rests on me. if i say i don't want her to live there, i look like the biggest bitch in the world, which i don't really want. and if i say she can move in, i risk getting into an unpleasant living situation, which i also don't want. what to do what to do. and i guess in the end it might not even matter, cause they might not even want her to move in. fingers crossed (which sounds mean too, but then the decision is made for me!). any advice from you guys on how to handle this?